greenEyes68
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Hi " Guys" its me again.
I told my story already but i was thinking to get a good discussion going on oneitis , why some people are prone to it and some are not. What causes it and how to get over it.
I know this topic can be found in many search results but i wanted to put a females perspective on it and allow you men to chime in..
First off my oneitis embarassingly has went on for 26 months now.
I still see no end in sight.
I dont want to go in great detail again except to add that , me and my onetitis have never really been physical. Alot of push /pull ,head games manipulation, flirting, Massive sexual tension.
Some of you probably are thinking what a desperate stupid woman to be obsessed for this long and not move on..
I couldnt agree more with you
My background in my younger years involved abuse and torture at the hands of a madman... I think this may contribute to my problem.. I am an attractive woman who gets plenty of attention from men better looking than he and even young lads 19-20 yrs old.. I am in my late 30's![Smile :) :)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
The young guys i find it perverted when they come on to me but hey maybe its flattering ??????
Ok so why have i wasted all this time money emotion and effort on one single man ???????????.. I have allowed it to rule my life my dreams my every breath
Is it because we have never been together phsyically ? Does onetitis die after sex ?....
It perplexes me i have read and read why i have this issue and how to get over it.
I read the many tips and just laugh and wonder how " keeping busy" Finding new friends" can undo this situtaion.
Whenever i see him my heart melts my brains starts a darn loop of obsessive thoughts...
I would love to hear ur stories of oneitis how long it lasted and what was it that caused u to get over it ?.
In my situtaion its no because hes the best looking man ever... In fact hes average at best . Its not because he makes millions of dollars or is real popular ..
ITS A GREAT MYSTERY.. :yes:
I told my story already but i was thinking to get a good discussion going on oneitis , why some people are prone to it and some are not. What causes it and how to get over it.
I know this topic can be found in many search results but i wanted to put a females perspective on it and allow you men to chime in..
First off my oneitis embarassingly has went on for 26 months now.
I dont want to go in great detail again except to add that , me and my onetitis have never really been physical. Alot of push /pull ,head games manipulation, flirting, Massive sexual tension.
Some of you probably are thinking what a desperate stupid woman to be obsessed for this long and not move on..
I couldnt agree more with you
My background in my younger years involved abuse and torture at the hands of a madman... I think this may contribute to my problem.. I am an attractive woman who gets plenty of attention from men better looking than he and even young lads 19-20 yrs old.. I am in my late 30's
The young guys i find it perverted when they come on to me but hey maybe its flattering ??????
Ok so why have i wasted all this time money emotion and effort on one single man ???????????.. I have allowed it to rule my life my dreams my every breath
Is it because we have never been together phsyically ? Does onetitis die after sex ?....
It perplexes me i have read and read why i have this issue and how to get over it.
I read the many tips and just laugh and wonder how " keeping busy" Finding new friends" can undo this situtaion.
Whenever i see him my heart melts my brains starts a darn loop of obsessive thoughts...
I would love to hear ur stories of oneitis how long it lasted and what was it that caused u to get over it ?.
In my situtaion its no because hes the best looking man ever... In fact hes average at best . Its not because he makes millions of dollars or is real popular ..
ITS A GREAT MYSTERY.. :yes: