"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oneitis and me were both playing hard for 6 months - now we scheduled a date

TheGambino

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So a lot happened, a lot of members will know.

She got me here in the first place in 2013, when I knew nothing about game. Quickly she finds out that I am a AFC and after a succesfull first date with making out everything goes down. Found out about this forum and I made a 180 degree change in my life on women. She got in a ltr for almost 4 years after me, she broke up with him 2 months ago when she started to get in my picture again.

Lots of sh1t happened but the truth is we are both attracted, she is the top notch gameplayer. HB9, model, banker, men destroyer.

But hey, im TheGambino, I played the strong game on her when she tried to see how desperate I was.

She tries to get my attention everytime I randomly see in her a bar or club, dancing in front of me, trying to make me jealous and all that. I ignored her always and hit on girls with success in front of her. Last saturday she turned it up a notch by approaching, grabbing my hand aggressivley all drugged out (she started to do that due a guy I introduced to her and her best friend which dates her best friend now).

Anyway saturday she asked me to take her home but I didnt feel like that and bailed. If I am going to f8ck her it's going to be sober.

Her friend and that guy hate me now, I deleted all of them from facebook a month ago due sh1t that happened and her friend (and the guy probably) c0ckbl0cked me all night but she tried to isolate me away that night and that worked.

For example I wanted to go smoke a cigarette with her and we almost were at the door when her freind comes to snapp her away from me. I laughed it off and went on my business, 5mins later oldoneitis girl approaches me again and isolates me to a corner in the club.

Now im ready. Got plates to fall back on, got my sh1t together.

Reached out 30 mins ago and we set a date for friday, only the two of us, no friends or idiots to c0ckbl0ck us.

I expect NOTHING, I got my head with me, I got the game, I got other options.

Will report back ofcourse with a lay report at her house if she turns up, to be continued.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino

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You haven’t had your **** together for the 4 years she’s had you wrapped around her finger.
Howcome? After we cut contact 4 years ago I never, ever talked to her until this summer dude, what are you talking about?

I review it like this: For a couple of months she tries to get my attention at clubs, she approaches me, she tries to make me jealous, saturday she turned it up a notch and even asked me to take her home.

I finally see upright interest and I want to f8ck her. The iron is hot, so I decided to reach out. Let's see what happens, I aint losing sheit anyway.
 
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Von

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Seriously, I don't know how you got your **** together and are a DJ if you still into a oneitis.... one of a long time ago

You post alot about her. You might as well date her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good luck.
Consider.... If drama comes out if the meeting, in any way, put all of this is your past. You've spent a lot of time on this. It needs to be smooth and work out well, if you continue to invest in it. Anything other than smooth, you bail forever.
 
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