"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oneitis and me were both playing hard for 6 months - now we scheduled a date

TheGambino

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So a lot happened, a lot of members will know.

She got me here in the first place in 2013, when I knew nothing about game. Quickly she finds out that I am a AFC and after a succesfull first date with making out everything goes down. Found out about this forum and I made a 180 degree change in my life on women. She got in a ltr for almost 4 years after me, she broke up with him 2 months ago when she started to get in my picture again.

Lots of sh1t happened but the truth is we are both attracted, she is the top notch gameplayer. HB9, model, banker, men destroyer.

But hey, im TheGambino, I played the strong game on her when she tried to see how desperate I was.

She tries to get my attention everytime I randomly see in her a bar or club, dancing in front of me, trying to make me jealous and all that. I ignored her always and hit on girls with success in front of her. Last saturday she turned it up a notch by approaching, grabbing my hand aggressivley all drugged out (she started to do that due a guy I introduced to her and her best friend which dates her best friend now).

Anyway saturday she asked me to take her home but I didnt feel like that and bailed. If I am going to f8ck her it's going to be sober.

Her friend and that guy hate me now, I deleted all of them from facebook a month ago due sh1t that happened and her friend (and the guy probably) c0ckbl0cked me all night but she tried to isolate me away that night and that worked.

For example I wanted to go smoke a cigarette with her and we almost were at the door when her freind comes to snapp her away from me. I laughed it off and went on my business, 5mins later oldoneitis girl approaches me again and isolates me to a corner in the club.

Now im ready. Got plates to fall back on, got my sh1t together.

Reached out 30 mins ago and we set a date for friday, only the two of us, no friends or idiots to c0ckbl0ck us.

I expect NOTHING, I got my head with me, I got the game, I got other options.

Will report back ofcourse with a lay report at her house if she turns up, to be continued.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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You haven’t had your **** together for the 4 years she’s had you wrapped around her finger.
Howcome? After we cut contact 4 years ago I never, ever talked to her until this summer dude, what are you talking about?

I review it like this: For a couple of months she tries to get my attention at clubs, she approaches me, she tries to make me jealous, saturday she turned it up a notch and even asked me to take her home.

I finally see upright interest and I want to f8ck her. The iron is hot, so I decided to reach out. Let's see what happens, I aint losing sheit anyway.
 
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Von

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Seriously, I don't know how you got your **** together and are a DJ if you still into a oneitis.... one of a long time ago

You post alot about her. You might as well date her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good luck.
Consider.... If drama comes out if the meeting, in any way, put all of this is your past. You've spent a lot of time on this. It needs to be smooth and work out well, if you continue to invest in it. Anything other than smooth, you bail forever.
 
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