"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. One girl- in a world with billions of people, do you really think she's the best you can get? No, she isn't. You can always do better. Don't get caught up

2. One friend- yourself. You're the only person you can truly trust/believe in

3. One family- love them. They love you. Don't take them for granted

4. One chance- don't let it slip away while you're young and alive

5. One heart- why risk breaking it? The only time you should truly LOVE a girl is when you're ready to add her to your family (marriage)

6. One instance- can change your who life

7. One second- could mean the difference between life and death

8. One body- don't let it suffer. Take care of it. Make it look as good as possible

9. One personality- you are the only one who matter. Be yourself because if you aren't yourself, who are you?

10. One fear- not being yourself. Don't try to make yourself look cool around people. Show them how much you don't care. That's what's attractive in a personality. Show people you are not a pu$$y

11. One post- can change your perspective

12. One bad day- makes no difference in the universe and it shouldn't deter you

13. One set of aspirations- get that body that you want. Get that money you deserve. Obtain that happiness because happiness is what we're here for

14. One strength- jealous? angry? hurt? We have all felt it...but isn't it time you fight it off? Be strong and face any challenges

15. One life- don't waste it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmmm...this is a neat tip...just remember "one" :up:
 

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Not bad at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by i am me


2. One friend- yourself. You're the only person you can truly trust/believe in
I can trust many. Not just myself.
 

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/\I'm not saying "don't have friends." Of course you can (if you don't, that's sad). But in reality, they only care about themselves. They're your friend because you make THEM happy or benefit THEM in someway. All I'm saying is don't sacrifice yourself unless you consider them "in the inner circle" (family...). You are the only one who you have 100% trust in.
 
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