Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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one trait we should all have

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Purpose. One important characteristic that all Men have. There are no exceptions.

Think of all the men you ever looked up to. Notice for a second, that they all seem to live life for something greater than themselves. Whether they changed the world, dominated a sport, or started a revolution, Men who are dominant, dominate life. They have purpose, ambition, and desire. They are driven, they plow on relentlessly to reach their goals.

Having purpose and ambition allows us to channel our energy, our masculinity. Men are meant to be aggressive, ruthless. Everything we do in life should be wrapped in audacity. We are meant to be animals. Where women embrace conversation and emotion, we embrace action and sex. Where women embrace fear, we embrace confidence.

We need goals so that we can be aggressive. Without goals, without a purpose, without a STARVING DESIRE to have MORE, we become passive. We become women. Our ambition creates a need to grow, to develop. It forces us to challenge ourselves, to overcome our fears. I promise you, Living a passionate life will cultivate more game in you than reading a million articles about relationships, Alpha Males, pick-up, or women.

One of my favorite quotes from the movie Wall Street:

“I’ve been in this business since ’69. Most of these Harvard MBA types don’t add up to dog ****. You need guys that are poor, smart, and hungry. And no feelings.



Being DRIVEN whether in your career or a hobby you have will do wonders for your success with women. If your life doesn’t center around your girlfriend, then small things like another guy hitting on her won’t bother you at all. You will NATURALLY display attractive traits because you’re not desperate for women, you’re desperate for something much greater. Who has time for women when your life is world domination? This type of mentality is SUPER ATTRACTIVE because it cultivates confidence, and shows women that you are a CHALLENGE, a PRIZE. You’re not like all the other desperate chumps out there, you have much more important things on your mind. You’ll have better control over your emotions, you don’t have time to get pissed off over little ****, you have a world to conquer. After a break up, you’ll know how to handle yourself. You’ve lost the girl, but you haven’t lost your dreams. There’s just a countless number of benefits to having a deeper purpose to your life BESIDES women. Women should never be a goal in your life, only a source of pleasure.

“You lose money chasing women, you never lose women chasing money”

If you think you don’t have a purpose right now, FIND one, MAKE one. Even if you work at McDonalds, you can create a purpose for yourself. Take the lead when you can, become manager. Take out student loans so you can get a college degree so you can keep climbing the ladder. It doesn’t matter where you work or what your career is, there is ALWAYS a path you can create for yourself with a greater purpose. You just need to find the fire inside of you.

http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2010/11/one-trait-that-all-men-should-have/
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You did provide the link, but it might be good to actually credit the author in your post, or post it as a quote.

An excellent addition to SS. Thank you for posting this outstanding piece.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
You did provide the link, but it might be good to actually credit the author in your post, or post it as a quote.

An excellent addition to SS. Thank you for posting this outstanding piece.
He never said his name. If you look at his blog, he is only called shark.
 
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