"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One Thing to Always Remember

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This should be pretty obvious however, some can't grip the idea. If you are rejected by a woman or anyone else for that matter, it's not a big deal. You need to move on and as you do, those who have rejected you will notice and perhaps they'll just realize they just missed the best opportunity of their life. Remember, YOU are the top dog, the alpha male, and anyone who decides to reject you is just another minnow in a sea full of fish.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Indeed.

I just got rejected on friday.. pretty damn coldly too.

Me: "Hey"
HB8: *Gives me weird look*
Me: "What, can't a guy say hello?"
HB8: "You're a freak".
Then she walked away.

But did I care? No. Did I make some new thread about it and whine? No. Did I ignore it and move on with my life? Yes.

Just stay in the mental mind set that it's THEIR LOSS. Not yours. It really is their loss anyway.. you big stud you..
 
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