One thing that makes your day

[Scratchwood]

Besides sex or *******s, what is one thing that your wife does (or can do) that makes your day or makes you feel like King.

 

[Epimanes]

The look of love .. and a well cooked home meal after a hard days work.

You should seriously look at www.marriagebuilders.com also. THis place .. and that other website i suggested may be of big help to you. BOTH have helped me greatly.

 

[speed dawg]

One thing your ***** ass can do is quit neg-repping my ass for nothing.

 

[expos]

I sadly cannot remember a lot of things that my ex-wife, who was a Cluster-B type - possibly BPD, did for me that really meant something. I did receive nice gifts on my birthday, she did cook us dinner, and when she was out of town on business she would often bring me back things from her travel. Those things were nice...but sort of were empty obligations. She was loyal and never cheated on me and I was thankful for that.

I would have gladly taken back every gift and ate cereal for every meal if it meant watching her give me a desirable look, a compassionate hug, or even getting close to me in bed and telling me how great I was. I remember going to a friends wedding and desperately wanting to slow dance with her and her response was "I don't feel like it". I remember being devastated by that. Even though sex can be wonderful, I longed for romance. I realize that's not very ALPHA, but in marriage I think it's a must.

As you can imagine, it was a virtually sexless 3 year marriage. She fought major depression and her anti-depressants killed her sex drive. I could not fix this woman.

When I reflect on my marriage, I longed for all of the little meaningless gestures that mattered the most. I really don't think I'll ever be married again (it's just too much of a risk) so I'm saddened by my one failed opportunity.

You married guys out there, take the time to really hug your wife and really stare into her eyes once in awhile. Really appreciate what you have if your wife really IS a good person.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I once got way too drunk at a wedding. On the car ride home, I puked on both my girlfriend and her mother at the same time. Both of them never seemed to care very much. The people who are important in your life should still love you when you are at your very worst. That's what holds relationships together.

 

[goundra]

yeah, everyone you know/is related to you should just let you get away with ANYTHING, right, Hitler?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Forgiveness is virtue.

 

[twentee]

says who? "Judge, and prepare to BE judged". (Ayn Rand).

 

[DJ SO STEVE]

Obviously everyone you know/is related to shouldn't let you get away with ANYTHING, what's your point of being so exagerative? If you're building a bomb that will kill your parents or blow up an elementary school and your parents found out you do think they would keep quiet and let you do ANYTHING?

Don't be a troll.

 

[twentee]

I aint the one who made the stupid claim. so go rag on the one who DID make it. You must not want to be held responsible for what you've done.

 

[Aubree]

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