"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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One thing leads to another, keep on clicking people

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good stuff. The first link the AFC guy .. getting a number at a bar was a major break-thru for him. I'm sure he's found out or will that the club scene is flake city. He'll be like a salesmen trying to sell a product - himself - to a fickle crowd.

The next link -- aaaahhh yes .. keeps the mentality that picking up girls should be as complicated as designing a nuclear war head (all kinds of testing and check points).
 

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Both are written basically by the same guy... well the second is just an info scam site, but tons of good articles, I tagged like 30 of them to my HD for later reading.

The first linkthough, he was one of the people that lived in as part of project hollywood with TD.

LOL, your sagan AI, that is SOOOO BS. Who input the inforamtion into him? That isn't AI, that is preprogrammed gibberish, pretty advanced gibberish, but gibberish nonetheless.
 
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