"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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One thing is clear and it is that man women relating is clear as mud.

sodbuster

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Well, I'm bitter about how society mislead me into marriage,bitter at my ex;but thats about it. I was a DJ before there was a forum,except I didn't have the help we have here.
Am I looking for a woman?yes,but. BUT I don't want to raise her kids,did that. BUT I'm allergic to her cat/dog [magic puzzy doesn't cure my allergies-so you won't be moving in with it. Even though you think you should be able to].BUT I won't let you play the games the wimps let you play.BUT I realize that a woman who cheated on her husband with a BF[and cheated on her BF with me after the divorce] isn't marriage material. BUT no matter how good a job she has, the woman will still want you to give her extra money for her stuff.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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