There is a much hue and cry about the new natural game in town. Hope many of you have heard about it. I learned one thing from my approaches, you cannot say if a woman is open or not unless you do a direct approach on her and here the first impression really counts. I like direct approaches but my logic says it is better to go with indirect method, but to be honest, i don't prefer it. can you all please tell me what you think about the direct and indirect method?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
One thing I realised....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Your logic or your emotions?
Anyway, Most of the times is wiser to go indirectly.It's not that there is a method. You just go and if you are relaxed and enjoy the interaction it doesn't really matter. Stop using methods and just be there and do what you like.
haha. i'd like to be that man, who approaches women directly with that heat oozing off him and sweeping women off their feet! that is waht my emotions say. i prefer direct game.
would think bout ur advice. thanks anyways.
would think bout ur advice. thanks anyways.