One reason behind no sex

[stevo]

I hesitated in creating a thread but cannot find an open thread in line with this info anyways let's all learn and internalize.

This quote was taken from a list of reasons why guys shouldn't have anal w women however the quote answers a different question not really relating to anal sex.

Since it was snapshot on my phone, I'll type the convo. From a real woman and her programming/conditioning. Alright here's from the article.

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The Perverse Power Game

My other friend, whom we'll call Marlene, and who, incidentally, was my sluttier advisor back in the days of naivety and who got married at the age of 21, had this gem to share: "I absolutely love it but I don't give it to them whenever I feel like it. You are a woman and sex needs to be on your terms. You have to make them beg for it, bring them to the verge of crying for it and then, only give it up when you have something really important to ask for in return. Like a yacht holiday."

If you don't see why this is fcuked up, you're worthy of all the sheet that's about to hit the fan blowing in your direction.

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For Newbies, if you're in a sexless relationship, w-a-l-k. Do not settle for a sexless relationship regardless of her justification.


For Gents, I've been preaching lately that one girl does not have the responsibility of meeting my needs, sexual and otherwise. She could if she wanted to and if she does she'd be promoted to girlfriend if everything else adds up but she doesn't have to. If she wants sex once a month, that's fine, there'd just be other girls putting in work to compensate.


For Married Dudes, This reminds me of my days of "till death do us part", I cringe every time I read this. Maybe because she starts off by acknowledging that she LOVES sex but she would not have sex with her man everything she wants to. It has to be very calculated to keep the man on a leash because she knows the man stands to lose a lot if he cheats. This makes me appreciate sosuave even more.
If you're married to a woman like this, spin her hamster and not even ask for sex AT ALL, EVER! that was the one knowledge I didn't have when I was married, I just kept on trying and trying and continuously got rejected until she decides its time.


Do what makes you happy. Stay on your term. AFCs do have it worst. Stop worrying about her reasons for not meeting your expectation or standard but instead consider other women that could give you what you want. Things like this make getting married scary. This is one type of woman, there are other types too with different guiding philosophy. This doesn't mean Men should GTOW.

 

[skinnyguy]

Most guys view marriage in the wrong way. They want to "Be with a woman" or whatever bullshyt.

I view marriage as a business opportunity. As I said before, I'll only marry if the girl makes more money than me. I'm seeking high performers who will make my financial life better. If we're not farking all the time so what, in fact most of us would get sick of farking the same person after 3 months anyway.

So do I hope to get married? Yes, pretty much. These days, women make almost as much as men do and often more, so you have to take advantage of that.

It's about time that men start using women for their personal benefit instead of the other way around.

 

[KingBeef]

Excellent thread...

Especially the messages on the single and married guys.

Single men only getting arse once a month?? A MAN NEVER APOLOGIZES FOR HIS NEEDS AND DESIRES. You compensate by getting other women who can "satisfy you." You are not a bad "snickers" commercial.

As far as married men this is a bit trickier BUT, it's a tell tale sign before you get married that she starts getting "tired" or "doesn't have the time" for it. She's suppose to be "Your better half???" You are suppose to be tearing each other's clothes off with a passion than going thru that nonsense...