"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One Really nice neg-hit:P

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here's a neg-hit/C+F I heard from a joke on a community im in...(you can learn a lot from stories, jokes and poems:D )

you: Wanna (put in whatever you like go/make/ect out)
Her: No, sorry...
You: damn Girl, why do you have such high standards when I don't???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh man that was totally awesome dude you got any more
 

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no, but of course Il post some more if I find any...
 

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That is a pretty good neg-hit. It will be getting some use by me.
 

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i would not use it as a pure neghit but if oyu sincerly ask a question like that and she says no, then i think this wuold be a great come back from her saying no.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here is another neg hit if you want to use.

Me: Do you want to do X
Her: No sorry
Me: Well you are so ****ing ugly

That's a really good neg hit, not insulting in any way because when you read insulting stuff on sosuave it isn't insulting because we have "game". They will therefore comprehend it as we are being a MAN instead off an *******.

I hope the irony get's through. This is not a neghit, it's insulting to her, she doesn't want to do that thing with you. Neg hits come before you ask anything they are used to breach her ***** shield not some come back when she says no.
 

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That isn't a neg hit. That was you trying to get even for her turning you down.

neg hits aren't really for self defence, unless she was being sarcastic, neg hitting you. (then it becomes a duel of words, which are fun and not really ment to hurt their feelings.)
 

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Swing and a miss.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Neg-hit or not, it's still funny.
Agreed.

Call it a "come-back" instead of a "neg-hit". It's pretty damn funny.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Agreed.

Call it a "come-back" instead of a "neg-hit". It's pretty damn funny.
a come back hey, well if you look up, already said that, dont steal the credit:(

and dont go and delete my earlyer post pretending that i never said it is a comeback:p

hehe only kidding, im not that annoyed at you :cool:
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
a come back hey, well if you look up, already said that, dont steal the credit:(

and dont go and delete my earlyer post pretending that i never said it is a comeback:p

hehe only kidding, im not that annoyed at you :cool:
thank god you aren't mad at him!
 

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nice!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Here is another neg hit if you want to use.

Me: Do you want to do X
Her: No sorry
Me: Well you are so ****ing ugly

That's a really good neg hit, not insulting in any way because when you read insulting stuff on sosuave it isn't insulting because we have "game". They will therefore comprehend it as we are being a MAN instead off an *******.

I hope the irony get's through. This is not a neghit, it's insulting to her, she doesn't want to do that thing with you. Neg hits come before you ask anything they are used to breach her ***** shield not some come back when she says no.
lol i thought he was agreein til I read the neg-hit....anyways to the original poster, that's something you say when you get rejected, not a neg hit. The chick already has all the power when she rejected you and you just give her more by trying to insult her to get back the dignity you THINK you lost.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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