"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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arq-dj1

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ok guys im into kung fu and all..

since being skinny is a good thing for this form of martial art, IM SKINNY..

however, i would like to develop some muscles just to look better.. i was thinking about doin' home exercises, and my question is:

Do i have to push real hard til i feel burning and go to bed a little hurt? (no in a bad way, but in that way when u workout a lot)?

i guess i have to, bc basecally im destroying muscles to make them bigger, so feel some pain after is good right?

just to know, cuz since i dont have weights, i need to inscrease reps everytime i feel it's gettin easy or not hurting anymore

thx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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the pain you feel may be muslce faituge but it certainly is not breaking the muslces down. The only thing that causes muslces to actuly break down is large quantitys of excersize or starving yourself, because the protein is broken down for energy.

now firstly do not excersize just before bed, at the latest do it 1 hour before going to bed but prefribly 2 or more hours.

You need to try and lift heavy weights to gian msucles and do quite a few repations but not loads and loads.

Its ok if it hurts a bit afterwards (remember to warm down afterwards) but you should not attempt a sesion the next day if your muscles still hurt, this is why you should only do a session every other day as weight training is hard on your muscles and you cna easily over train, and even thou people think the more excersize the better, over training is terible and can cause you to have to almost completly stop training for a month.
 

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Home excersizes?

You need push-ups, crunches, and if you can get your hands on them, weights. NOT heavy ones, light (you need to build up)
 

arq-dj1

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i see

well i guess i can buy some weights. This is different from the gym, since i can't inscrease weight everytime i feel like, so i always increase reps... i can't be too big, but i want to tone my body and look more defined...
 

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impliment the following into your workout routine to gain muscle as fast as possible:

>squats

>deadlifts

>dips

>overhand pull ups

>bench press (with power rack if poss.)

>over head press (military press)

there are more but i cant recall them at the mo! :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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