"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One of the many LS converts recently unplugged:

KarmaSutra

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I got this doozie in my mailbox a few minutes ago:

karma,
hey man i just wanted to tell you that i saw the thread you did over at loveshack where i usually lurk.
i really liked alot of what i saw, so i came over here.
which threads should i be reading to help improve myself?
i am not really having trouble picking up women or anything like that, it is just that i always feel that i have to work on my self esteem. women seem to tear it down but i guess i allow them to when i care about them.
thank you,
(name withheld for privacy)
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I'm going to throw a couple of links here to get this brother going. I'd like to see some specific threads from you guys to help get him to a safe, confident place.

And, for Christ's sake, no links or suggestions to the DJ Bible. It's already a standard.

VICTORY UNLIMITED's surefire shortcut to self actualization:

Walking the walk:

Joekerrs' rules of life:

If you have any specific issues brother, start a thread. And don't worry about any type of totalitarianist bullsh!t here. SoSoave respects different points of view. I promised I would not divulge your identity and I would never betray a confidance. Don't fear anything because today is the first day of the rest of your life!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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geez more about LS, lol
I don't think I'm a convert from LS.... I was banned from there for months, but I tellya... That place and the people got me to show my pic and start thinking that I can either sit and be shy, or I can get off my ass and just go for it.

Well I went for it, so my stay there wasn't a total loss. This place is ok though... One thing with a forum like LS, is that tons of different emotions are thrown around...basiclt most there are either lonely ,or going through huge emotional voids. It's not to hard to say the wrong thing at the wrong time in places like that and sparks fly.

Also to much time in forums like that is not healthy at all.... at least not for me.

This place seems like a happy medium... I may stick around a bit... I'm new to the dating scene, so maybe I can learn something...who knows, lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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