"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One of the many LS converts recently unplugged:

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I got this doozie in my mailbox a few minutes ago:

karma,
hey man i just wanted to tell you that i saw the thread you did over at loveshack where i usually lurk.
i really liked alot of what i saw, so i came over here.
which threads should i be reading to help improve myself?
i am not really having trouble picking up women or anything like that, it is just that i always feel that i have to work on my self esteem. women seem to tear it down but i guess i allow them to when i care about them.
thank you,
(name withheld for privacy)
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I'm going to throw a couple of links here to get this brother going. I'd like to see some specific threads from you guys to help get him to a safe, confident place.

And, for Christ's sake, no links or suggestions to the DJ Bible. It's already a standard.

VICTORY UNLIMITED's surefire shortcut to self actualization:

Walking the walk:

Joekerrs' rules of life:

If you have any specific issues brother, start a thread. And don't worry about any type of totalitarianist bullsh!t here. SoSoave respects different points of view. I promised I would not divulge your identity and I would never betray a confidance. Don't fear anything because today is the first day of the rest of your life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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geez more about LS, lol
I don't think I'm a convert from LS.... I was banned from there for months, but I tellya... That place and the people got me to show my pic and start thinking that I can either sit and be shy, or I can get off my ass and just go for it.

Well I went for it, so my stay there wasn't a total loss. This place is ok though... One thing with a forum like LS, is that tons of different emotions are thrown around...basiclt most there are either lonely ,or going through huge emotional voids. It's not to hard to say the wrong thing at the wrong time in places like that and sparks fly.

Also to much time in forums like that is not healthy at all.... at least not for me.

This place seems like a happy medium... I may stick around a bit... I'm new to the dating scene, so maybe I can learn something...who knows, lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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