"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One of the greatest tips i've heard.

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The credit for this tip goes to my Chinese culture teacher.

This is the tip for LTRs with marriage in sight.

Ok, the tip is simple yet genious- Before you get married, do something that will REALLY piss your partner off, then watch his/her reaction. By doing this you will see what you are going to have to deal with in future...when you are no longer free to say "Lets not get tied up".

Say, you make her mad and she goes off barhopping for a week straight and you dont hear anything from her... that's a good sign you should drop her.

Or she gets really quiet and cries for a day straight... are u willing to put up with this once you get married?


I thought this was a very good tip, what do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One of my female friends' long distance boyfriend pissed her off big time and she had sex with me three nights in a row and later she told him that she was crying and couldn't sleep after their argument. I was just the rebound guy though...not saying it wasn't awesome
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so true.

this should be common sense for anybody thinking about taking the plunge (of death). if you really are planning on giving up your bachlorhood permenantly then you better test your woman to make sure. ya know, check her mom out to see what she's gunna be like/look like etc.

dont be a foolio and make it for life if you can't handle the heat.
 

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What has always worked for me was going on a week long vacation with a woman. Think about it, spending 24 hours a day together for a week. There's nothing like living with someone to be able to take a look into their intimate lives.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What has always worked for me was going on a week long vacation with a woman. Think about it, spending 24 hours a day together for a week. There's nothing like living with someone to be able to take a look into their intimate lives.
This is a good tip. As for the one where you piss them off, that seems good on paper, but when you think about it, pissing someone off is never going to bring anything good, so you're only trying to cut your losses I guess. Too much for too little insight you're going to gain in my opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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as long as we are doing this, everyone pitch in what you have:


I am not sure how well this will work, but ive heard other implement this : basically you sit down with her and discuss all the thing you expect. like, how often will you have sex, who pays for what, who cleans up what... sounds kind of wierd but might work for some

nice tip franc
 

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Another tip I heard from an old fisherman:


Early in the relationship - was marriage for him - the girl does something small which pisses him off, likebehaving rude or so..

Instantly the guy left home for two weeks, without any notice, or any news on his whereabouts, and came back after that time as nothing had happened.

He told me, his wife never ever did similar rudeness to him again...
 

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basically this is what women do to guys all the time. I wouldn't recommend this, just test your woman from time to time like how they test us.

oh and that living together thing.. well you can practice that by (if you live by yourself) getting her stay over - vice versa.
 

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If you did something to really pizz her off, and she just cried and was quiet for a day, then I would say she really loves you. What is wrong with that?
 

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Heh, dont know about you but im not falling for girl's tears traps.

I've seen it used before, makes men feel like chumps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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