"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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One of the greatest tips i've heard.

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The credit for this tip goes to my Chinese culture teacher.

This is the tip for LTRs with marriage in sight.

Ok, the tip is simple yet genious- Before you get married, do something that will REALLY piss your partner off, then watch his/her reaction. By doing this you will see what you are going to have to deal with in future...when you are no longer free to say "Lets not get tied up".

Say, you make her mad and she goes off barhopping for a week straight and you dont hear anything from her... that's a good sign you should drop her.

Or she gets really quiet and cries for a day straight... are u willing to put up with this once you get married?


I thought this was a very good tip, what do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One of my female friends' long distance boyfriend pissed her off big time and she had sex with me three nights in a row and later she told him that she was crying and couldn't sleep after their argument. I was just the rebound guy though...not saying it wasn't awesome
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so true.

this should be common sense for anybody thinking about taking the plunge (of death). if you really are planning on giving up your bachlorhood permenantly then you better test your woman to make sure. ya know, check her mom out to see what she's gunna be like/look like etc.

dont be a foolio and make it for life if you can't handle the heat.
 

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What has always worked for me was going on a week long vacation with a woman. Think about it, spending 24 hours a day together for a week. There's nothing like living with someone to be able to take a look into their intimate lives.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What has always worked for me was going on a week long vacation with a woman. Think about it, spending 24 hours a day together for a week. There's nothing like living with someone to be able to take a look into their intimate lives.
This is a good tip. As for the one where you piss them off, that seems good on paper, but when you think about it, pissing someone off is never going to bring anything good, so you're only trying to cut your losses I guess. Too much for too little insight you're going to gain in my opinion.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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as long as we are doing this, everyone pitch in what you have:


I am not sure how well this will work, but ive heard other implement this : basically you sit down with her and discuss all the thing you expect. like, how often will you have sex, who pays for what, who cleans up what... sounds kind of wierd but might work for some

nice tip franc
 

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Another tip I heard from an old fisherman:


Early in the relationship - was marriage for him - the girl does something small which pisses him off, likebehaving rude or so..

Instantly the guy left home for two weeks, without any notice, or any news on his whereabouts, and came back after that time as nothing had happened.

He told me, his wife never ever did similar rudeness to him again...
 

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basically this is what women do to guys all the time. I wouldn't recommend this, just test your woman from time to time like how they test us.

oh and that living together thing.. well you can practice that by (if you live by yourself) getting her stay over - vice versa.
 

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If you did something to really pizz her off, and she just cried and was quiet for a day, then I would say she really loves you. What is wrong with that?
 

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Heh, dont know about you but im not falling for girl's tears traps.

I've seen it used before, makes men feel like chumps.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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