"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One of the biggest signs of high interest level is when she says this....

sazc

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wow, I'll bet that moment felt so damn good to you :) I'm positive she meant it. My only concern is that she is so young. Does she have insight to herself and her needs and can she communicate well with you? You are right about relationships taking work. The work doesn't have to be difficult as long as the people are communicating well. I know that you know that your chapter with her is just beginning and that your relationship may travel down one of many roads. You are smart enough to know the possibilities and know to proceed with an open heart but also be cautious. Be sure to learn along the way. She may not end up being your 'ending' but the relationship will contain many lessons. Be watchful. Good luck!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've got a question pertaining to the interest level of a woman hopefully I don't need to put this in a different thread but if so lemme know.

So I work with this one chick and she is asking me why this one guy will not text her. She says they haven't talked in 6 months and she is super in love with him but she doesn't want to come off as super into him for fear she might scare him away and that she feels as though guys need to be the ones chasing. I told her he has probably moved past her because he may have felt as though for some reason she wasnt worth it and told her she should probably text him. Lol.

Anyways, have any of you run across a female that won't text for that very reason (Like we would know) or how to go about dealing with a woman who refuses to make first contact?
 

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When a woman says you're the greatest lover she ever had, she means you're the greatest lover she ever had. That week.

Women are ONLY interested in the moment. The minute they leave, it's out of sight out of mind. You must reseduce them every time. Depending on her interest level, she will slowly cool down over time (i.e., she might send love letters for a few more weeks).

The silver lining? Once you seduce one girl of a certain quality level, you seduce every woman on Earth of that quality level. You are subsequently prequalified by all women that hot. This is especially true once you date your first stripper. Somehow they all know (even girls from different states) and they seem to give you the benefit of the doubt from that point on. So although one woman might flake, all of them won't. So always hit on equally hot women after you score.
 

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I've got a question pertaining to the interest level of a woman hopefully I don't need to put this in a different thread but if so lemme know.

So I work with this one chick and she is asking me why this one guy will not text her. She says they haven't talked in 6 months and she is super in love with him but she doesn't want to come off as super into him for fear she might scare him away and that she feels as though guys need to be the ones chasing. I told her he has probably moved past her because he may have felt as though for some reason she wasnt worth it and told her she should probably text him. Lol.

Anyways, have any of you run across a female that won't text for that very reason (Like we would know) or how to go about dealing with a woman who refuses to make first contact?
Happens all the time. Women expect men to magically know what is going on in their head even when half the time the women has no idea what is going on in her own head.

It is why 90% of relationships fail. Mens inability to read minds.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. Actions over words.
2. Don't catch feelings.
3. It's all about the time she's in and guys after her.
4. There's a lot you have no control over. If it's going south, just go ghost.
5. Men can't read minds. Most men will fail a first date and not know why. No dofferent than a big job interview.
6. Men hardly ever know where, how, why, when, and who was f**ked up in a date, interaction, etc.
7. Sure, most men know how to simply delete a failed woman from all platforms and block her (it's better than being friends or an orbiter). Sadly, not knowing what went wrong and the fix leaves said men running in circles and not making any progress.

Case closed.
 
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