Many people suffer from test anxiety. I used to be one of these people. I may have known the material, but I would question myself while taking tests. One day a girl in my class was complaining about test anxiety. My professor's response was gold. She said take a breath and tell yourself you were here for the lectures and you know the material. I tried it out and it worked like magic. What is really great is that it can apply to several circumstances. I am fairly new to the DJ world, but I have gone over all the tips. So now when I start to get nervous while trying to pick up girls, I just take a deep breath and tell myself I know all the DJ material. It's a great confidence builder. So next time you start to feel nervous just tell yourself that you know the DJ material and no girl can say no to a DJ.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
One of the best tips I've ever heard.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
dyce
Don Juan
yeah 'affirmative statements' are a good way to assure yourself and be more secure
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Affirmations rock, they have for hundreds if not thousands of years!
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avrilishot
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wow thats pretty cool. ill have to try that soon.