Many people suffer from test anxiety. I used to be one of these people. I may have known the material, but I would question myself while taking tests. One day a girl in my class was complaining about test anxiety. My professor's response was gold. She said take a breath and tell yourself you were here for the lectures and you know the material. I tried it out and it worked like magic. What is really great is that it can apply to several circumstances. I am fairly new to the DJ world, but I have gone over all the tips. So now when I start to get nervous while trying to pick up girls, I just take a deep breath and tell myself I know all the DJ material. It's a great confidence builder. So next time you start to feel nervous just tell yourself that you know the DJ material and no girl can say no to a DJ.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
One of the best tips I've ever heard.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dyce
Don Juan
yeah 'affirmative statements' are a good way to assure yourself and be more secure
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Affirmations rock, they have for hundreds if not thousands of years!
However, the poll is not helpful, why ask?
However, the poll is not helpful, why ask?
avrilishot
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wow thats pretty cool. ill have to try that soon.