Many people suffer from test anxiety. I used to be one of these people. I may have known the material, but I would question myself while taking tests. One day a girl in my class was complaining about test anxiety. My professor's response was gold. She said take a breath and tell yourself you were here for the lectures and you know the material. I tried it out and it worked like magic. What is really great is that it can apply to several circumstances. I am fairly new to the DJ world, but I have gone over all the tips. So now when I start to get nervous while trying to pick up girls, I just take a deep breath and tell myself I know all the DJ material. It's a great confidence builder. So next time you start to feel nervous just tell yourself that you know the DJ material and no girl can say no to a DJ.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
One of the best tips I've ever heard.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dyce
Don Juan
yeah 'affirmative statements' are a good way to assure yourself and be more secure
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
also when times get tough, saying "there's nothing i can't handle" helps
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Affirmations rock, they have for hundreds if not thousands of years!
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avrilishot
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wow thats pretty cool. ill have to try that soon.