One of my plates is harassing me

[zinc4]

She keeps sending all of these fairy tale sounding texts about how she feels like we were meant to be together and she knew she liked me when we first met and she will always cherish me and weird crap like that....i had been holding her at bay successfully after getting with her 3 times in total about 2 months back...saying i didn't want anything else because of how crazy she started acting so quickly but then she started sending provocative pics to my phone last Sunday saying she would come over right away how much she wanted to do all of these different acts in bed and stuff and it was too much to resist...i had a hangover and for some reason am always more horny with a hangover..so she caught me in a weak moment while i was laying in my bed... would have been like Dominoes telling me they would bring some free 3 topping pizzas over...

And so now after having sex all day on Sunday she is really going gaga with the texting despite me telling her it's only a strictly casual relationship....and she has been sending text after today on Saturday trying to set something up for this weekend despite me saying i am going out of town and i only responded ok to a few before ignoring the last 3 all together...

Any ideas on how to cut this one off without having to change my number? I even told her after we had sex last time we couldn't see eachother anymore and she has known that i am not looking for a relationship from the beginning but she never gives up...the scary thing is she knows where i live...

 

[Purefilth]

dont neverevereverever go ghetto with a psychobvtch!

Shiit man - cant say ive had any like that. they tend to take the hint pretty quickly.

i try to avoid taking them to my place in the first place.

Sorry i cant be of much help

 

[Mr Wright]

I don't have any experience in this but how was she at the start of the casual relationship? Any signs that she could just turn into a complete crazy stalker?

I guess all you can do is learn from a situation like this

 

[iamnobody]

Had a similar problem once, an ex turned stalker on me, lives very close by... The only solution is time. Yes, time. Whatever you do or don't do will give her more fuel. Just ignore her and if it gets thicker, like she comes to your place, lay down the law, tell her you don't want her to come around. Eventually she will find another guy.

 

[mv.89]

Go all mushy-mushy over her. We do know that keeping girl at distance works to bring em close, how about trying to get close, putting her on pedestal?

Texting her more than she does to you, calling her, leaving voicemails, go all AFC on her and she'd leave you lol

Unless you want her to stop with her behaviour and keep the sex part which Ofcourse would be optimal then I'd say go back and forth with AFC and Alpha behaviour lol

 

[Purefilth]

Go all mushy-mushy over her. We do know that keeping girl at distance works to bring em close, how about trying to get close, putting her on pedestal?

Texting her more than she does to you, calling her, leaving voicemails, go all AFC on her and she'd leave you lol

Unless you want her to stop with her behaviour and keep the sex part which Ofcourse would be optimal then I'd say go back and forth with AFC and Alpha behaviour lol

Definitely dont do this.

If she's obsessed with you already, then the mushy shyte is gonna fuel her like mad.

Chances are she'd love that attention.

If a girl likes you then its gonna take a looong time of the mushy crap to make her run - (if she ever does).

Going ghost is actually yoyr best bet - she'll get bored when she finds another new shiny object to obsess over.

 

[playa99]

Go ghost on the b!tch, don't reply, if she turns up at your house... ignore it.

I've had these crazy b!tches.. In my experience you gotta put up with sh!t no matter what you've said or done before they harrass someone else, "you've changed your a proper d!ck head now" Just ignore her and eventually she will leave you alone.

 

[zinc4]

yeah, right now i am on ignore mode...i knew somehthng was fishy when we slept together the first time and the way she was looking at me the next morning and kissing my forehead and stuff and then i couldn't get her out the door without making up excuses..

 

[JBB84]

Tell her you met someone else if you need to. Or that you're working things out with an ex and sorry.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

She keeps sending all of these fairy tale sounding texts about how she feels like we were meant to be together and she knew she liked me when we first met and she will always cherish me and weird crap like that....i had been holding her at bay successfully after getting with her 3 times in total about 2 months back...saying i didn't want anything else because of how crazy she started acting so quickly but then she started sending provocative pics to my phone last Sunday saying she would come over right away how much she wanted to do all of these different acts in bed and stuff and it was too much to resist...i had a hangover and for some reason am always more horny with a hangover..so she caught me in a weak moment while i was laying in my bed... would have been like Dominoes telling me they would bring some free 3 topping pizzas over...

And so now after having sex all day on Sunday she is really going gaga with the texting despite me telling her it's only a strictly casual relationship....and she has been sending text after today on Saturday trying to set something up for this weekend despite me saying i am going out of town and i only responded ok to a few before ignoring the last 3 all together...

Any ideas on how to cut this one off without having to change my number? I even told her after we had sex last time we couldn't see eachother anymore and she has known that i am not looking for a relationship from the beginning but she never gives up...the scary thing is she knows where i live...

....."I'm pregnant" is going to be her last ace in the hole.

 

[mv.89]

Definitely dont do this.

If she's obsessed with you already, then the mushy shyte is gonna fuel her like mad.

Chances are she'd love that attention.

If a girl likes you then its gonna take a looong time of the mushy crap to make her run - (if she ever does).

Going ghost is actually yoyr best bet - she'll get bored when she finds another new shiny object to obsess over.

For real ?
Well going ghost I can understand but being distant would attract her even more won't it.
So mushy-mushy won't work as a counter-productive measure but it sometimes ruins guys who actually have good intentions towards their gfs.