one of my plates seems to be escalating things.
we've hung out a few times always kept it fun and flirty. she flaked on me once because i was in class for another hour when her class let out early and she didn't want to wait.
she told me straight up. "don't wanna wait around with my thumb up my ass. lets do a rain check"
no counter offer on the hang out i figured no intrest and just placed her on the back burner and kept conversation sparse but present still trying to keep it fun and flirty which she seemed to enjoy. also no text unless texted and obviously no calls.
now outta nowhere we went from a cruising speed of 25 mph to 60 in a day.
she randomly asked if i wanted to come over in between a large lull between classes. i said sure. we hung out for 3 hours at her place while waiting for our next class. i literally met her ENTIRE family. for which they all had this grin on their faces when i shook their hands. she introduced me as a friend.
i'm getting the strange impression she doesn't normally bring home ANYBODY guy or girl from school period. which was the reason for the grins.
she showed me her room. got really flustered when i said your room is trashed. (which it was) and she began to clean up. she showed me all her personal things i've never seen before. showed me some new outfits of hers and she posed in them and asked my opinion.
then she offered to cook me some lunch. i'm like wtf at this point.
then she kept insisting i make myself comfortable and watch tv or play xbox. again WTF.
she drops me off. i go to my class she goes back home because her lull was even longer than mine.
our next class she actually changed clothes into the shirt i said looked nice. makeup was on perfume and all.
after which she proceeded to call me FIVE times after i left campus. for stupid stuff of course but normally she just txt. now its only calls. she was like why when i call you say hello weird. (and i do cuz i'm kinda surprised)
HOWEVER i said "is there a certain way i should say hello? sh*t this is my phone you called me" i wasn't mean about it but more assertive and she laughed. (didn't know that was funny)
i'm not dense. but this really has me at a loss here. where the hell did this even come from? this chick probably has SEVERAL orbitals with at least 3 or 4 confirmed dudes that are actively trying to get with her.
She can make one call and some guy will be at her beck and call no lie. she proved it to me. she's like watch this. called some guy said she needed some cash for lunch and was like can you bring it up to her. he said give me like 10 minutes. my mind was blown.
Opinions on the situation?
we've hung out a few times always kept it fun and flirty. she flaked on me once because i was in class for another hour when her class let out early and she didn't want to wait.
she told me straight up. "don't wanna wait around with my thumb up my ass. lets do a rain check"
no counter offer on the hang out i figured no intrest and just placed her on the back burner and kept conversation sparse but present still trying to keep it fun and flirty which she seemed to enjoy. also no text unless texted and obviously no calls.
now outta nowhere we went from a cruising speed of 25 mph to 60 in a day.
she randomly asked if i wanted to come over in between a large lull between classes. i said sure. we hung out for 3 hours at her place while waiting for our next class. i literally met her ENTIRE family. for which they all had this grin on their faces when i shook their hands. she introduced me as a friend.
i'm getting the strange impression she doesn't normally bring home ANYBODY guy or girl from school period. which was the reason for the grins.
she showed me her room. got really flustered when i said your room is trashed. (which it was) and she began to clean up. she showed me all her personal things i've never seen before. showed me some new outfits of hers and she posed in them and asked my opinion.
then she offered to cook me some lunch. i'm like wtf at this point.
then she kept insisting i make myself comfortable and watch tv or play xbox. again WTF.
she drops me off. i go to my class she goes back home because her lull was even longer than mine.
our next class she actually changed clothes into the shirt i said looked nice. makeup was on perfume and all.
after which she proceeded to call me FIVE times after i left campus. for stupid stuff of course but normally she just txt. now its only calls. she was like why when i call you say hello weird. (and i do cuz i'm kinda surprised)
HOWEVER i said "is there a certain way i should say hello? sh*t this is my phone you called me" i wasn't mean about it but more assertive and she laughed. (didn't know that was funny)
i'm not dense. but this really has me at a loss here. where the hell did this even come from? this chick probably has SEVERAL orbitals with at least 3 or 4 confirmed dudes that are actively trying to get with her.
She can make one call and some guy will be at her beck and call no lie. she proved it to me. she's like watch this. called some guy said she needed some cash for lunch and was like can you bring it up to her. he said give me like 10 minutes. my mind was blown.
Opinions on the situation?
