"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One of my friends need help

zack77766

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Ok, he's actually a teammate, but he asked me if I had someone and I told him I had several prospects. Then he just asked if I knew anyone and if I could hook him up. Im just thinking about giving him 2 or 3 tips on how to deal with girls. Any good ideas on what I should say?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stuntmann

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Is he an actual AFC, or just wants a girl off of you?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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zack77766 said:
.. Any good ideas on what I should say?
Wouldn't it make sense to find out if he actually has a problem attracting women and what the problem may be before providing answers?
 

MacAvoy

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"Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime"

Don't hook him up with any women, show him how to get women's numbers.
 
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