Ok for those wondering if this should be in the tips section,I figured well yea it is a tip BUT more HS people could relate to this alot easier and would be more suitable here.
Im sure many of you hang out in groups at school like any random person(unless your a loner).Now many times when your in a group,you get to listen and have the opportunity to talk and chat with whoever it is your interacting with.
Many times while I was talking with my boys,I always look around from time to time.
Why?
If I see a girl/girls looking in my general direction,I figure it as someone saying to me....
GO!
Basically at that moment,I kind of get that "race" moment into me to speak.Yeah if we lock eyes,I am pretty sure she is gonna look back for a 2nd look while im offguard.At that moment,either I wait for someones story to finish OR I jump in and say any story.YEA ANY RANDOM ASS STORY I HAVE.And I make sure to use a clear and loud voice and to move my hands and be very interactive.Brownie points if you make the people laugh which is very useful.I stress just dont make it seem like your saying a story randomly.I mean you should already be engaged well enough before you see the girl,but its kind of like a mentality where when you see her,its kind of like you see someone you want to impress and you give it your all
I do this for several reasons...
1.Since you already locked eyes,she most likely will look again if you look decent enough and dont look like a ****.That is an IOI
2.Once I start spittin out my story,it takes people back to the whole leader of the tribe thing.Being an alpha male by controlling the group instead of just listening and being quiet
3.If you make them laugh,she will indeed know that you are a fun guy which is what all girls love.
4.Glance over maybe while your speaking or at a pause.If she is looking,you caught her!HAHA this is a grand moment
Now some of you have different approaches which is fine but this is something I use now which does help alot.I mean this isnt necessarily approaching a girl,its merely improving your chances BEFORE you approach her because after all this IS High School and social proof is important
Im sure many of you hang out in groups at school like any random person(unless your a loner).Now many times when your in a group,you get to listen and have the opportunity to talk and chat with whoever it is your interacting with.
Many times while I was talking with my boys,I always look around from time to time.
Why?
If I see a girl/girls looking in my general direction,I figure it as someone saying to me....
GO!
Basically at that moment,I kind of get that "race" moment into me to speak.Yeah if we lock eyes,I am pretty sure she is gonna look back for a 2nd look while im offguard.At that moment,either I wait for someones story to finish OR I jump in and say any story.YEA ANY RANDOM ASS STORY I HAVE.And I make sure to use a clear and loud voice and to move my hands and be very interactive.Brownie points if you make the people laugh which is very useful.I stress just dont make it seem like your saying a story randomly.I mean you should already be engaged well enough before you see the girl,but its kind of like a mentality where when you see her,its kind of like you see someone you want to impress and you give it your all
I do this for several reasons...
1.Since you already locked eyes,she most likely will look again if you look decent enough and dont look like a ****.That is an IOI
2.Once I start spittin out my story,it takes people back to the whole leader of the tribe thing.Being an alpha male by controlling the group instead of just listening and being quiet
3.If you make them laugh,she will indeed know that you are a fun guy which is what all girls love.
4.Glance over maybe while your speaking or at a pause.If she is looking,you caught her!HAHA this is a grand moment
Now some of you have different approaches which is fine but this is something I use now which does help alot.I mean this isnt necessarily approaching a girl,its merely improving your chances BEFORE you approach her because after all this IS High School and social proof is important
