"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One of my best friends is going after my ex...

orca

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This happened to me. And all I could do was laugh real hard!!

I know what you mean, it's confusing because your best friends usually agree with you on your reasons for doing things (like breaking up/finishing with your gf), or at least they seem to agree with you...

Seriously though, just relax and move on, this should speed your transition to the next girl if anything.

At worst, he sees this as an opportunity to hit on your ex and get some action with a hottie. At best, she confided in him and used him as a shoulder to cry on, and he weakened (it's hard not to...!).

You and her aren't together, just talk to them calmly about it and let them know you don't mind. There's no point breaking a friendship over a girl.
 

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