“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hunterchilla

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I was searching around and I couldnt find this if anyone can link me up that would be great because im sure it has been covered but anyway

When I go out to a club/lounge/bar How do you bring the girl home with you the SAME night instead of just getting a number.

I usually say when im about to leave, " Hey wanna come back to my place " or " Hey wanna come back for some wine " or " Where you going after this " I always get " im going home, or something else" and then when I try to persuade they say " another night, or not tonight, or call me tomorrow "

can anyone fill me in on something im probably missing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After attraction rapport and isolation. (assuming you made out already)

"Hey I want to show you these cool.... at my house."

try something that doesn't directly say come home with me or lets go to my place and have sex. Instead give her a reason to come whether its to see some photos or a cool thing on your computer.
 

So pimp its scary

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It depends on the vibe you're getting... if you got a good vibe try to 'continue the party elsewhere' then it's just a matter of getting her horny.

remember :

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla

I usually say when im about to leave, " Hey wanna come back to my place "
Your asking her if she wants to be a dirty little minx?

Theres so many things wrong with this I'm not even going to start. When shes rubbing her legs together like a cricket and has pupils the size of dinner plates you take her hand and say "lets go".
 

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they suck

Am I the only one who thinks one night stands are extremely counterproductive for rAFCs? They are for me, anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's a breif thread on ONS.

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
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I like this acronym. Easy to remember and simple:up:
 
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