"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys,I,m just a little confused on what to do here.About 1 yr ago,Ihad my eye on this girl,but she was taken so I backed.Saw her this past weekend,at this ale house that I go to,we danced and chatted.The night went,she was all over me,she invited me to her house,had sex,stayed the whole night.Time to leave so I gave her my number,and she said "can,t guarantee I,ll call you.So,I asked for her number,probably a mistake ,right?She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.I called her as a matter of fact,about 15 minutes prior to this thread,no answer,no voicemail,or nothing.I liked this girl,and she told me Iwas hot,and she checked me out alota times.What do I do from here?Thanks guys.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What's there to like about her? That she had a one night stand with you? Your probably not the first one either. She isn't worth your time, meaning no need for feelings in this situation. You had sex with her .. move on. Wrong girl to be looking into having a LTR. :down:
 
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If you see here again at the "ale house", you may be able to hit it again....but not worth your any serious time....

She probably hooked up with someone the next night too...

Can't turn a ho into a housewife my friend....:cheer:
 
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Originally posted by conan2120
Time to leave so I gave her my number,and she said "can,t guarantee I,ll call you.So,I asked for her number,probably a mistake ,right?She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.I called her as a matter of fact,about 15 minutes prior to this thread,no answer,no voicemail,or nothing.I liked this girl,and she told me Iwas hot,and she checked me out alota times.What do I do from here?Thanks guys.
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One-night-tis is festering like a cancer in you brother. The cure is reading every post about ONE-I-TIS by Rollo Tomassi.

You think other guys haven't dropped thier loads into that cvm dumpster after you? I can only hope you didn't go down on her . . .:nono:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My two cents....

ok... she told you:

"can't guarantee I,ll call you."
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Then you said she:

She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.
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I think she showed you her interest level right there. She got what she wanted and so did you. ;) Take it for what it was.... a one night stand.
 
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I wouldn't persue a reluctant ONS with too much viggor. Rest on your laurals a bit. ONS's can be tricky from time to time an NSA sex is always the best. Enjoy your freedom get out there and game some more girls. If you see this one again you can play some social games with her with her but getting yourself involved in phone persuits is kind of a waste of time.

I don't get why you'd wouldn't try to understand how you went about having a ONS and then trying to repeat that process. It's an awesome way of life (Note the orginal Don Juan did this with unparalled grace). There's almost an art form to the ONS as F closing a girl in a matter of a few hours (without boat loads of money) isn't the easiest of task. I'd worry about that then chasing tail that seems to be in a different mind set from yours.
 
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