Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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conan2120

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Hey guys,I,m just a little confused on what to do here.About 1 yr ago,Ihad my eye on this girl,but she was taken so I backed.Saw her this past weekend,at this ale house that I go to,we danced and chatted.The night went,she was all over me,she invited me to her house,had sex,stayed the whole night.Time to leave so I gave her my number,and she said "can,t guarantee I,ll call you.So,I asked for her number,probably a mistake ,right?She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.I called her as a matter of fact,about 15 minutes prior to this thread,no answer,no voicemail,or nothing.I liked this girl,and she told me Iwas hot,and she checked me out alota times.What do I do from here?Thanks guys.

Mike Ryan:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's there to like about her? That she had a one night stand with you? Your probably not the first one either. She isn't worth your time, meaning no need for feelings in this situation. You had sex with her .. move on. Wrong girl to be looking into having a LTR. :down:
 

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If you see here again at the "ale house", you may be able to hit it again....but not worth your any serious time....

She probably hooked up with someone the next night too...

Can't turn a ho into a housewife my friend....:cheer:
 

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Originally posted by conan2120
Time to leave so I gave her my number,and she said "can,t guarantee I,ll call you.So,I asked for her number,probably a mistake ,right?She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.I called her as a matter of fact,about 15 minutes prior to this thread,no answer,no voicemail,or nothing.I liked this girl,and she told me Iwas hot,and she checked me out alota times.What do I do from here?Thanks guys.
One-night-tis is festering like a cancer in you brother. The cure is reading every post about ONE-I-TIS by Rollo Tomassi.

You think other guys haven't dropped thier loads into that cvm dumpster after you? I can only hope you didn't go down on her . . .:nono:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My two cents....

ok... she told you:

"can't guarantee I,ll call you."
Then you said she:

She was kinda hesitant on giving it,but she did.
I think she showed you her interest level right there. She got what she wanted and so did you. ;) Take it for what it was.... a one night stand.
 

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I wouldn't persue a reluctant ONS with too much viggor. Rest on your laurals a bit. ONS's can be tricky from time to time an NSA sex is always the best. Enjoy your freedom get out there and game some more girls. If you see this one again you can play some social games with her with her but getting yourself involved in phone persuits is kind of a waste of time.

I don't get why you'd wouldn't try to understand how you went about having a ONS and then trying to repeat that process. It's an awesome way of life (Note the orginal Don Juan did this with unparalled grace). There's almost an art form to the ONS as F closing a girl in a matter of a few hours (without boat loads of money) isn't the easiest of task. I'd worry about that then chasing tail that seems to be in a different mind set from yours.
 
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