"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hunterchilla

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Anyway I have another question, if its been answered already maybe someone can refer me to the page but when your at a club and your both all over each other how do you seal the deal so she comes back with you THAT NIGHT.

Its always wierd for me here because its so obvious that I want to bring her home just to have sex. I usually go with why dont you come back for the after party, or lets go back to my house and drink some wine. But usually I get the answer of call me tomorrow or another time or some thing.

( under no circumstances do I want to go on dates with her any thing like that, strictly 1 night stand )
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Build up really good rapport with her, and if you do, saying 'lets go someplace quieter' should work.
 

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I have not tried this personally, sorry to shyt theory all over the board, but what about having an interesting story about a pet or a weird pet and saying let's go back and check it out. It gives her an excuse to leave that isn't tied to being seduced.
 

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ONS are easy for me because just about every club I go to is inside a casino so after I establish the fact that the girls are tourist, I just ask them which casino they're staying at and the rest works itself out from there.

However there are still times that I meet up with locals who I'm just looking to get sometail from then that's the end of it. In those circumstances I do what's necessary to keep the sexual tension and ambition between us high. Talk about provactive things that you do/have done in bed and encourage her to do the same. If you can find a booth and sit down during this but remember keep her close. Lots of heavy kino maybe some drinks. You should keep her isolated from whatever friends she came with unless she says "we're (as in you and she) are going home, you should come with us" that means you're staying at her place. If you keep her isolated and from keeping track of time typically her friends will leave or tell her they're going. It takes some luck at that point for her not to get her senses about her and say she's got to go, you can however apply some more pressure here (more kino, more sex talk, more drinks) and sway her back to the dark side. Then you should take her back to your place. Sometimes you can take her back to her house and do the deed there but this is often awquard if you decide to sleep there and have to make an escape in the morning. If you do decide to go to her house, tell her you have a meeting or something in the morning and can't stay, then evac asap.

That's what I recommend for clubs/lounges/bars. Seems complicated but you'd be suprised how well it works out when you're on the scene.
 
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