"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sadonomspa

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You should say " iam sorry its just I saw myself having feelings for you and felt an intimate connection" you should ask for her back like she broke up with you and you two were ltr for years. Go Npd,bpd on this girl. Good luck!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zarky

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bukowski_merit said:
Zarky - do you mean to reward women for putting out so that they will put out for other men?
I mean reward the female gender in general for putting out. You guys really aren't very able to think outside the box, it appears (no pun intended.)

For example, the girl sleeps with you on the first date, and you reward her with a great time which includes sleeping over. She's more likely to do it again, she's more likely to tell her friends about the good time she had, she's more likely to raise her daughters to do it, she's more likely to defend other women for doing it, etc. etc. etc.

Yes, your one interaction is not going to completely change her world, but the actions of all men all over the globe will.

Why do you think women are usually reticent to do one night stands? Because they know as*holes like the OP will treat them poorly if they do.

C'mon guys, think of the bigger picture here. If some kid told me he treated chicks like that, after they gave him what he wanted, I'd slap him silly.

The difficult part about the concept is that it sounds good in theory but in the real world it would only be a disaster.
Great, why don't you tell me exactly why it would be a disaster instead of making vague propositions you can't actually back up.

In fact, of course, treating people well who do what you want, doesn't lead to "disaster." That concept is utterly ridiculous and now you're just talking because your ego is preventing you from acknowledging that you're wrong.

It's the concept behind "compliance tests" in the pickup community. When a woman doesn't do what you want, you punish her slightly. When she does, you reward her slightly. If a chick bones down on the first date, you reward her for it, not punish her. This is not rocket science. Now, sometimes girls are completely screwed up and "reward" for her might be blowing her off, but there's nothing in the OP to indicate that in this case, and in fact she girl seems to be showing with her behavior that she's upset by it and regrets her decision to put out. If someone can show me otherwise, I'd be happy to hear it.

Read it, know it, understand it, and then come back and post with the big boys. Until then, keep your mouth shut. Your posts evince nothing but irrationality and lack of understanding.

I'll say it one last time for the really slow learners and then I'm going to move on to a new thread and you all can try to come up with lame arguments as to why this axiom is incorrect:

If a girl does what you want, reward her. If she doesn't do what you want, punish her.

This is the underlying theory behind all of Behaviorism as well as "compliance tests" in the PU community.
 

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Zarky said:
I mean reward the female gender in general for putting out. You guys really aren't very able to think outside the box, it appears (no pun intended.)

For example, the girl sleeps with you on the first date, and you reward her with a great time which includes sleeping over. She's more likely to do it again, she's more likely to tell her friends about the good time she had, she's more likely to raise her daughters to do it, she's more likely to defend other women for doing it, etc. etc. etc.

Yes, your one interaction is not going to completely change her world, but the actions of all men all over the globe will.

Why do you think women are usually reticent to do one night stands? Because they know as*holes like the OP will treat them poorly if they do.

C'mon guys, think of the bigger picture here. If some kid told me he treated chicks like that, after they gave him what he wanted, I'd slap him silly.



Great, why don't you tell me exactly why it would be a disaster instead of making vague propositions you can't actually back up.

In fact, of course, treating people well who do what you want, doesn't lead to "disaster." That concept is utterly ridiculous and now you're just talking because your ego is preventing you from acknowledging that you're wrong.

It's the concept behind "compliance tests" in the pickup community. When a woman doesn't do what you want, you punish her slightly. When she does, you reward her slightly. If a chick bones down on the first date, you reward her for it, not punish her. This is not rocket science. Now, sometimes girls are completely screwed up and "reward" for her might be blowing her off, but there's nothing in the OP to indicate that in this case, and in fact she girl seems to be showing with her behavior that she's upset by it and regrets her decision to put out. If someone can show me otherwise, I'd be happy to hear it.

Read it, know it, understand it, and then come back and post with the big boys. Until then, keep your mouth shut. Your posts evince nothing but irrationality and lack of understanding.

I'll say it one last time for the really slow learners and then I'm going to move on to a new thread and you all can try to come up with lame arguments as to why this axiom is incorrect:

If a girl does what you want, reward her. If she doesn't do what you want, punish her.

This is the underlying theory behind all of Behaviorism as well as "compliance tests" in the PU community.

Why would you reward someone who you have no or very little interest in sleeping with again? For the benefit of other men? That is just silly, because when you reward them they will be wanting more and more of YOU.
 

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this is why you keep a surveillance camera on your front porch. outside of ovbious reasons like robbers, **** like this i'd let her play the entire tape out just so i can embarass her ass in front of as many people as possible when i show a tape of her grabbing my balls and putting her tounge down my throat on camera before we enter the house.

you can get a cheap one for a few hundred bucks and run it through your pc.
 

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if you are kind of dangerous man women usually don't miss with him , they are afraid from the revenge later ,but if she think you are not the kind of who take his revenge by his hand she may try to harm you , but I guess she is broke, and harming some one usually cost money in legal or illegal way unless she have some hit man do that for free
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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