"One night stand" follow-ups

[orca]

I thought it was the perfect situation - met a beautiful girl while I was in a foreign city for a night and we spent the night together and both had fun. The connection between us was great, we were very comfortable with one another.

We both live in different countries anyway, and we exchanged numbers in the morning. I texted her a few days later saying 'hope she enjoyed the evening', 'call me when you're in town' etc. when I got home and she replied when she got home.

I replied again, the same morning, indicating I like her but not saying I want anything more than what we did have. I don't believe in travelling internationally for what would essentially be a booty call.

I would like to hook up with her again but feel that travelling specifically to see her would be a bad move. Since these last texts arrived 2 days have passed and I've not replied (though I will probably tomorrow)

What would you guys do?

 

[Krassus]

How far and what else is there to do.. besides her?

 

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Originally posted by orca


What would you guys do?

savour the exquisite pleasure in your memory you had at the point of climax (lol i sound like niles standish,.. yes? yes?) you had with this b!tch, chalk it up to a cool experience, smile then go out and phuck another one.

 

[orca]

Nice suggestion (.)(.)! I've been doing that already... well, without the 'phuck another one' bit yet.

But I missed the real dilemma before. I don't want a relationship, and don't want to giver her the impression that I do. So what sort of message in a text would sound good, and do you think visiting her would give her the wrong impression, because I think it would.

I intend to find other girls as per usual anyway but this one was pretty sweet and I would like to see her again, but would rather it was if we happened to be in the same town at the same time.

 

[bman]

tell her you like her but ld relationships dont work. tell her you want to be friends though. that way when you are near her or shes near you then you can ****.

 

[orca]

bman, that is exactly what I wanted to say. Thanks for articulating it for me, I must have had a mental block...!