Glassguy
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Attraction: That is what EVERYTHING boils down to in dating. If you are not creating attraction, you are doomed. Why do you think 10% of men bang the majority of good looking chicks on OLD? Its because these guys are ATTRACTIVE and they have a Benz in their pic or pics from an apparently nice house. Or pics of them traveling and doing fun stuff in live (money).
Women are attracted to many different things. Looks, the way you dress, the way you speak, how you carry yourself, your confidence, charisma, personality, your ego, money, social status, power, the vehicle you drive to the house you live in, etc.
The more of each of these you have the more women you will ATTRACT. And the BETTER those women will be in terms of looks, having their own lives, careers, etc.
Too many threads recently about "Did I screw up with this chick"......"how do I make her like me"......Fellas this isnt 3rd grade. You cant make a woman like you. You have to become a better version of yourself to attract MORE women.
With MORE OPTIONS you have more POWER, most importantly more power over YOURSELF. You wont be saying "awe I am so sorry"....."what can I do to make it up to you".......because you wont fvcking care if ONE chick gets bent out of shape over literally nothing. You just next her and move on to the other options. Plan B just became Plan A on your list when that happens.
Attraction-Interest-More women (options)-Maintain frame
The problem is some of you guys are acting like a victim to your own social retardation and laziness. Get off your @ss and go work on yourself. Put the work in and you will see a different in what and how many woman you are attracting.
I promise you one thing- if you can CREATE a version of yourself that attracts women, they will pursue you. No more hot and cold texts, no more leaving you to figure out her clues, no more confusion. Women with HIGH interest will make it extremely easy to hang out with them. The more value they see in you, the higher the interest.
I promise you one thing- you can literally get away with almost anything if a woman perceives you as high value and has high interest.
If she doesnt, you will be chasing your tail and wondering.
High interest women dont act annoyed. They laugh at your stupid jokes. The come over and bang you when you text them at 10pm. Then you send them home and leave THEM wondering.
Happy Hunting.
Women are attracted to many different things. Looks, the way you dress, the way you speak, how you carry yourself, your confidence, charisma, personality, your ego, money, social status, power, the vehicle you drive to the house you live in, etc.
The more of each of these you have the more women you will ATTRACT. And the BETTER those women will be in terms of looks, having their own lives, careers, etc.
Too many threads recently about "Did I screw up with this chick"......"how do I make her like me"......Fellas this isnt 3rd grade. You cant make a woman like you. You have to become a better version of yourself to attract MORE women.
With MORE OPTIONS you have more POWER, most importantly more power over YOURSELF. You wont be saying "awe I am so sorry"....."what can I do to make it up to you".......because you wont fvcking care if ONE chick gets bent out of shape over literally nothing. You just next her and move on to the other options. Plan B just became Plan A on your list when that happens.
Attraction-Interest-More women (options)-Maintain frame
The problem is some of you guys are acting like a victim to your own social retardation and laziness. Get off your @ss and go work on yourself. Put the work in and you will see a different in what and how many woman you are attracting.
I promise you one thing- if you can CREATE a version of yourself that attracts women, they will pursue you. No more hot and cold texts, no more leaving you to figure out her clues, no more confusion. Women with HIGH interest will make it extremely easy to hang out with them. The more value they see in you, the higher the interest.
I promise you one thing- you can literally get away with almost anything if a woman perceives you as high value and has high interest.
If she doesnt, you will be chasing your tail and wondering.
High interest women dont act annoyed. They laugh at your stupid jokes. The come over and bang you when you text them at 10pm. Then you send them home and leave THEM wondering.
Happy Hunting.