"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you guys do when you start to text a girl but the stop replying?
i just got there number and said hey its me , she replied >heyy so i asked her how she was doing and i havent heard from her? any reason why and what should i do when ever i dont get a reply after a while?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're really considering ditching one of your good friends because the popular kids think you should? Think for yourself man, if you like him , you will stay his friend; maybe you could even help him by showing him this site. if you really care what people think of you that much, then you're just another person trying to fit in. Do what YOU want to do man, be you're own person and it will all work out.

P.S- I've made this mistake, and lost what could have been some of my best friends.

WTF I posted this in another thread an it somehow ended up here.
 
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steve_erkle said:
You're really considering ditching one of your good friends because the popular kids think you should? Think for yourself man, if you like him , you will stay his friend; maybe you could even help him by showing him this site. if you really care what people think of you that much, then you're just another person trying to fit in. Do what YOU want to do man, be you're own person and it will all work out.

P.S- I've made this mistake, and lost what could have been some of my best friends.

WTF I posted this in another thread an it somehow ended up here.
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So you thought. hahaha
 
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Don't fall into society's trap with the texting, just call her and you'll do much better. Not only will you hear each other's voice, but she won't be able to f*ck with you like texting does. Only problem, if you a good conversationalist, you would need to fix that first.
 
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bump - i'm also curious as to what to do. this happened to me yesterday. should i just call her and ask her if she got my text? then bust her balls about it and say she made it completely awkward
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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theobserver said:
bump - i'm also curious as to what to do. this happened to me yesterday. should i just call her and ask her if she got my text? then bust her balls about it and say she made it completely awkward
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NO. Chances are she got your text. Chances are she wasn't interested. Don't pursue it. Don't try and bust her balls, because she won't care. What will it achieve if you start accusing her of being awkward? Nothing.

All I can say is, when texting a girl, don't text about boring or mundane things, or small talk as we call it, otherwise she'll just be too bored to care and text back.
 
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