"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sosa_80

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What do you guys do when you start to text a girl but the stop replying?
i just got there number and said hey its me , she replied >heyy so i asked her how she was doing and i havent heard from her? any reason why and what should i do when ever i dont get a reply after a while?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're really considering ditching one of your good friends because the popular kids think you should? Think for yourself man, if you like him , you will stay his friend; maybe you could even help him by showing him this site. if you really care what people think of you that much, then you're just another person trying to fit in. Do what YOU want to do man, be you're own person and it will all work out.

P.S- I've made this mistake, and lost what could have been some of my best friends.

WTF I posted this in another thread an it somehow ended up here.
 
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steve_erkle said:
You're really considering ditching one of your good friends because the popular kids think you should? Think for yourself man, if you like him , you will stay his friend; maybe you could even help him by showing him this site. if you really care what people think of you that much, then you're just another person trying to fit in. Do what YOU want to do man, be you're own person and it will all work out.

P.S- I've made this mistake, and lost what could have been some of my best friends.

WTF I posted this in another thread an it somehow ended up here.
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So you thought. hahaha
 
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Don't fall into society's trap with the texting, just call her and you'll do much better. Not only will you hear each other's voice, but she won't be able to f*ck with you like texting does. Only problem, if you a good conversationalist, you would need to fix that first.
 
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bump - i'm also curious as to what to do. this happened to me yesterday. should i just call her and ask her if she got my text? then bust her balls about it and say she made it completely awkward
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theobserver said:
bump - i'm also curious as to what to do. this happened to me yesterday. should i just call her and ask her if she got my text? then bust her balls about it and say she made it completely awkward
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NO. Chances are she got your text. Chances are she wasn't interested. Don't pursue it. Don't try and bust her balls, because she won't care. What will it achieve if you start accusing her of being awkward? Nothing.

All I can say is, when texting a girl, don't text about boring or mundane things, or small talk as we call it, otherwise she'll just be too bored to care and text back.
 
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