One more Journal coudln't hurt...

[Gunner26]

Thought it was about time I started writing this, looking back on the last 3 or 4 months I've come a lot further then I would of done without you guys, starting uni probably helped too. Recently I've figured out how to stay in a great mood all the time following a couple of sayings, smiling and listening to some songs I love everyday.
Now it's the New Year I may as well help my progress a little more by writing a journal of events so I can look back and see where I went wrong, hopefully you guys could help out with some pointers too.

So a bit of background info –
I'm 19, about 5”10 and something close to 134 pounds so I'm a little underweight but I already got a plan to sort that out when I get back to uni next week as I've already signed up to the gym down there.
I've been told by people I'm a great wingman which I kinda agree with, loads of the early action between friends at uni I had a role in, both guys and gals. One girl even credits me for her relationship.
I'm also pretty social, and loads of people seem to like me, when we were sorting out housing for next year we made lists of the 3 people we wanted to live with most, out of 21 of us I was on 12 peoples list.
Finally I'm a funny guy in group situations, the more people around me the better I work. Its when I get to one-on-ones that I usually struggle, so it's an area I've already started to work on, the other week I isolated a HB7 while me and some friends were out and spoke to her for a good 10 minutes making her laugh and stuff, forced myself to ask for the number and got it but haven't done anything since.
Now other stuff I struggle with is that I'm definatly still a nice guy, recently I've been compared to a 'little brother' by a girl from upstairs and even worse a 'straight, gay best friend' by someone else.
Also, I'm terrible at escalating with a girl, I'm completely comfortable up until I have to move in for the kiss and then I freeze, or just don't act on my instincts.
So the aim of the journal I guess is to get me out there more. I wanna break the image of a 'nice guy' and learn how to escalate properly as well as put on another lean 15 pounds.

I'll make my first proper entry tomorrow or the day after, as today all I've got on is tidying my room, but tomorrow evening I'm meeting up with some friends from home who I haven't seen since going to uni, and then I might be going out on Tuesday as well to see 2 friends from uni for a catchup before one of them gives me a lift back to Swansea next Saturday.

Wish me luck guys – Gunner's firing up :woo:

 

[LearningSlowly]

Welcome! It's going to be interesting to hear from someone who already has good social skills. Once you learn be honest about being sexual, you'll be killing.

Looking forward to fun reads, especially about college life. The timing of this whole thing is to ensure I have the best college situation I could ask for.

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Don't be ashamed about being sexual man, girls want it more than you. Just go for it.

 

[Gunner26]

Right so as I said in my first post I went out the other night. It was good, just a catch-up with friends from home at the pub, started drinking about 5 got home about half 12 so all was good. We mentioned the possibility of me going to Birmingham sometime next month to see 'Rick' as well as another friend of mine 'Ken' coming to visit me at uni around about the same time, it'd be awesome if we could sort something out pretty soon as I know everyone gets their friends down to see them during refreshers. Also found out yesterday that I get into every refreshers event for free because of this package I bought at the beginning of the year – Sweet

I was also going to meet up with some uni friends as well – 'Lorie' and 'Victor'. Both of them are on my course at uni and live in my block. Lorie is a HB7 and probably one of my better uni friends, she seems interested as well, it was her idea for the three of us to meet up, there would have been others but they had to pull out. That meet up yesterday fell apart, but I wasn't too bothered I went and played some 5 a side football with family friends instead because I generally play every Tuesday and Friday when I'm at home. What's better though is she asked to meet up again tonight. I cant go though as I've got to go out with some family this evening. I think I'll proceed a little slowly with her when we get back to uni, could be some potential there with her. When we go back to uni on Saturday I'm also getting a lift off Lorie with Victor as well so that should be cool.

So besides this I've not really had a lot to do, I've walked my dogs a couple times and been revising for two tests next week which thanks to my earlier essays/coursework I only need about 15% in each to pass the modules

Ill try update again sometime over the weekend when I've got more to talk about, hope you enjoyed the read.

 

[Gunner26]

Well, haven't had time to repost anything with exams all this week - and then because of them haven't got alot to say other then they haven't been too bad. Last exams in about an hour, thought I'd try and relax as I can't possibly learn anything new now.

The one thing I did do when I wasn't working this week though was get some people in my block together for a chinese - got a group of 8 of us and it was a blast.

After my exam I've already got plans to go to the pub with one of my flatmates and some of my friends from upstairs in celebration that we now have nothing to do until the end of the month. And then Friday more of us are going out as other people finish their exams - Refreshers is going to be sweet.

 

[Gunner26]

Ok due to me not having loads to say at the moment I'll try and update this everyweek.

Anyways the past week has been interesting in that I'm out there doing stuff in the evening, I haven't really done anything in the days at the momentbecause not everyone had finished exams.

Last Friday was a bit of a shambles, I had a good time out at town but there was some drama involving some of my friends which ended up with my flatmate Ciara getting with my friend Emeritt and then because of that happening Laurie got with Victor. Situation seems to have sorted itself out now though and I'm determined not to have anything to do with it like I did last semester when I tried to play the role of peacemaker.

Monday was good, but we were the first people in the club - it filled out kinda quick though and we had a great night, got offered a couple free drinks off my mate Wade for helping him get some action with a HB7 we were out with so that was a bit of a bonus – didn't get much myself as I was focusing more on having a good time. I also went and spent £150 on a bus pass for the term as it saves me so much money getting the bus into uni everyday or to town.

Wednesday was similar to Monday, we just went out to town nothing special although I did end up losing all the people I went to town with, but I bumped into a HB7 from my course and introduced myself to her friends who all seemed pretty cool – also made sure I asked her number when we left for the taxi and I got it – will probably text her sometime tomorrow.

Then Thursday we went out, I got way too drunk as the drinks were dirt cheap, I remember I was talking to a HB6 at the bar but I didn't pursue because I was too drunk I mean I didn't even think to ask what her name was. I ended up crashing in my mate Laurie's (HB7) bed until about 6am at the end of the evening because my flatmate Ciara brought a guy home, and I'd been taking the piss out of her saying I didn't want to be woke up by her moans on the other side of the wall .

So besides the going out I haven't really done a lot, Friday morning Laurie, Ciara and my other friend Jasmin (HB6) and me went to KFC for breakfast, and then I went and joined the gym in the afternoon with Ralphs and James but didn't have a session as I was still kinda hungover and drunk at the same time. We are going out again tonight which should be decent – its the first night out with both my mates James and Emeritt since we got back to uni as they've had exams longer then me and I'm looking forward to it.

 

[LearningSlowly]

I had a good time out at town but there was some drama involving some of my friends which ended up with my flatmate Ciara getting with my friend Emeritt and then because of that happening Laurie got with Victor. Situation seems to have sorted itself out now though and I'm determined not to have anything to do with it like I did last semester when I tried to play the role of peacemaker.

my mate Wade for helping him get some action with a HB7 we were out with so that was a bit of a bonus – didn't get much myself as I was focusing more on having a good time.

I bumped into a HB7 from my course and introduced myself to her friends who all seemed pretty cool – also made sure I asked her number when we left for the taxi and I got it – will probably text her sometime tomorrow.

I remember I was talking to a HB6 at the bar but I didn't pursue because I was too drunk I mean I didn't even think to ask what her name was.

I went and joined the gym in the afternoon with Ralphs and James but didn't have a session as I was still kinda hungover and drunk at the same time. We are going out again tonight which should be decent –

I've trimmed your post down to some key points. They're longer than I would like, but it's because you aren't telling the truth, so I have to read between the lines.

You don't realize what you're doing wrong, but it's staring you in the face.

The first part: Everyone is getting with everyone. You are getting with no one.

Second: You help someone else get with a girl. You get with no one.

Third: You saw a cute girl you know out at night and did nothing. I'm POSITIVE (I need no evidence except the rest of this post) that she thinks of you as only a friend and never anything more. You will get with neither her nor any of her friends.

Fourth: You tried to do the right thing. Then you give up, make excuses, and get with no one.

Fifth: You're a skinny little man and you're skimping on your work outs.

First advice: Quit masturbating entirely. If you ever have the thought, "Nah, I don't even want to go for her." you either: Masturbated too recently. Are in denial about your insecurities. Or are gay, in which case we should get to work on finding you some dudes.

Second advice: Make some decisions. When you see a girl you might have a chance with tonight, decide immediately that you want her. Once you decide you want her, that means: Physically touching her as much as possible. Being obvious about wanting her. Making a move (at least a kiss, but you'll need to make more moves to have sex tonight) as SOON AS POSSIBLE.

Try to either crash and burn, or succeed beautifully. Never half a$s it, like you have been so far. I want to read a report tomorrow where you went out and made a fool of yourself tonight.

 

[Amo]

First advice: Quit masturbating entirely. If you ever have the thought, "Nah, I don't even want to go for her." you either: Masturbated too recently. Are in denial about your insecurities. Or are gay, in which case we should get to work on finding you some dudes.

I disagree with this. Not with the not-masturbating part, I agree with that wholeheartedly. There are perfectly gorgeous chicks who I know better than to go for. And there are days, although rare, where I don't feel like flirting or getting the girl. Just my two cents.

 

[Gunner26]

Here we go again, been a little longer then even I thought but here's the next update.

Before I start though, Slowly, I saw your post on Friday, so that's about 5 days ago – you were spot on with what you said so thanks, I needed a kick up the ass

Anyways, Saturday prior to the one just gone was a good day, just chilled played some xbox with blockmates and then we went for a kickabout just down the road for a couple hours. When we came back I had some dinner, showered, then we started drinking. The evening was eventful for all the wrong reasons - my game was poor and my mate Victor got in a really bad mood which ended in him nearly getting in a fight with a guy from the block across. But the worst part was when some **** came into our block pretending to be hammered calling out for a girl he didn't even know, we kicked him out so he threw a chair at a girls car and just wouldn't leave. Eventually we decided to chase him off and when we did some of his mates came outa nowhere throwing punches at us. Suffice to say I got up on
Sunday with some bruised knuckles, a bruised chin and hand marks around my throat

Nothing really happened Sunday bit of a doss just talking about what happened the night before, and Monday I joined the gym properly, I had been just paying as I went but now I'm a member until Easter and can go whenever. And I got a spotter as well in my flatmate Rob who goes to the gym pretty often so it should be good, I've been 4 times in the last week just to try and get in a routine of going consistently. Also on Monday I went out to town for an Animal fancy dress party – I went as a penguin with James and the others all went out as something different. I found that me dressed as an animal was an awesome icebreaker at the bar – I got talking to one HB6 dressed as a dalmatian and was chatting a bit when I left asked for the number but got rejected Oh well.

It seems to be a bit of a pattern – the day after a night out nothing really happens and that's true about Tuesday except me and Rob went gym in the afternoon. Wednesdays are the big night out for students where I am though and I had a great time, I was still in a good mood after Monday night and brought it upon my self to have a little competition with James; basically who could say hello to the most amount of people in 30 minutes, now it was something I was incredibly comfortable doing as it was one of the first things I learnt to do from this site and I won with ease, but it did wonders for James who's normally really shy. Again no numbers but I was happy just putting myself out there.

Thursday I went to town to do my weekly shop, made sure to get healthy foods which I did, albeit one bag of chips did make it's way into the trolley. And also I went to get some more shorts for the gym as I realised how much more I'm going to be going 1 pair just wasn't enough. Me and 7 others from the block joined a 5 a side football league as well which is something I really wanted to do since I came to uni, back home I play 5 a side twice a week but since coming to uni I've only had the occasional kick about and 1 tournament which we won, hopefully this league won't disappoint games get played every Tuesday evening.

Ok so Friday I did absolutely nothing but lounge around the flat talking to flatmates, watching films and playing video games; it was a complete waste of a day, but it did give me time to check sosuave and see the advice you guys have given. So Saturday I went gym in the morning and then came back watched some Prison Break with Rob and my other flatmate Elva for a while – its just something we've been doing every other day since coming back after Christmas. Cooked some dinenr and then we all went out to town, I had a good feeling about the night during pre-drinks and I wasn't worng. I was saying hello to people left, right and centre out in town, the alcohol probably helped but what's more is that I was actually making conversation with people when I had the chance, like when Victor went for a cigarette I went with him, I don't smoke but it's quieter in the smoking area and I used it to full advantage I got talking to a 2 set of HB7 and a 5 found out their names were Lucy(HB7) and Devon(HB5) forgot to ask for their number as me and Victor left but it was cool I bumped into them again in the taxi que on the way home with my mate Piggy, we got a taxi with them and I made out with Devon a bit in the taxi, Lucy was more into Piggy so I left him to her – even though she was the better looker I wasn't too bothered as at least this time I didn't leave nothing for myself. We got invited back to their house and honestly I thought I had it in the bag until we got to their door, we went to go in and then the girls flatmates pretty much ****-blocked us by refusing to let us in. Not sure what to think about that, if anyone's got any ideas on it that'd be helpful as both the girls had said to us to come back to their rooms. So yea after the rejection at the door me and Piggy walked 2 minutes home as our block was a little further into the student village, had a bit of a chat with some of the guys still up and then went to bed.

So then Sunday was kinda poor, went to the gym in the afternoon and played a bit of football before that with some of the boys then watched a film in the evening with Laurie and Ralphs. Which brings us to yesterday, lectures started again after a week break since the exams and they went ok, one of the lecturers seems really boring but the others are decent and the stuff they covered was really interesting so I'm actually looking forward to the lectures this term. We also went out last night, just to a club and it was a standard evening out, I had a good time and played the Hello challenge again, this time with Ralphs I won by about 10 people, and probably said hi to about 30 people total, but it was literally that just a wave of the hand and a hello/hi/alright. I got home and basically passed out in my hallway just outside my door, then Rob came out of his room still drunk and because he couldn't find my key put me in Ciara's bed who then kicked me out about an hour later. I actually went to bed after that at about half 4 in the morning and slept with my jeans still on with my door wide open . Woke up at about half 8 this morning then went straight back to bed when I fell over on the way to the toilet because I was still drunk. Got up about lunchtime and went to my lecture, which wasn't very interesting then went for a walk on the beach and rang my parents back home. After I came back I went KFC with Laurie, Ralphs and two other friends Ellen and Jack, then me Laurie, Ralphs and Jack watched a film.

Now I'm sitting here writing up my update about to go watch some Prison Break with Rob and Elva. I'll try update a tad more often as this post is waaay too long and I think I might have forgotten some bits from earlier last week. Anyway, any advice or feedback is greatly appreciated, it's the reason I'm posting it on here rather then just writing it all down and leaving it on my laptop.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I haven't really been following this journal thus far..

What routine are you doing?
What and how much are you eating pro/carb/fat?

If you just continue going out often and challenging yourself, you're bound to improve rapidly.

 

[DanZy]

You pulled a 5 and failed to number close a 6. Dude, up your standards! What's wrong with you?

 

[Jack Wealthy]

I skim read this.

You seem gay as hell. Like the very definition of AFC. I didn't think AFC was legit but I would be willing to accept the reality of AFC's if I could watch and study you in your natural habitat.

Here's a list of your problems:
-You care way to much what people think about you.
-You fight. Not a problem, cept you're **** at it.
-You avoid confrontation.
-You have some sort of weird contradiction between the above two, wherein you will fight if someone else starts it (ie leads and takes responsibility) but not lead yourself. You take no responsibility for yourself and your sex life.
-Again on above, you set friends up because it is lower risk and you're scared.

I honestly couldn't read it all because it was painful. Here are my solutions:
-Find a bunch of low risk girls, around fifty, go for them hard. This should take you around a month of solid approaching hot girls. It will be scary as, my first time I greyed out in front of two sixes. But eventually you'll become casual and thus cool, then sexy, funny, ****y, all that jazz we got. So force yourself to go up to absolute strangers (no excuses about reputation) and say whatever is one your mind.

Yeap, there is only one solution to all your problems. Take control of girls as well, don't manipulate, just go for it. Nike the fcuk out of bitaches.

Also, no offence meant. Just catching your eyes.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Agree with Jaedon. You go to college, there are hot biddies all around. Take advantage of your opportunity here.

 

[Gunner26]

@NorweiganDJ - I haven't really recorded what my calorie/pro/carb intake has been, I've just been trying to eat a little more then normal as well as healthier food - substituting chips for jacket potato and adding more fruit and veg into the mix.
My routine is a 10km run on Mondays, Chest and Abs on Wednesday, Back and Shoulders on Friday and Arms and Legs Saturdays. I might cut out the run on Mondays though as I'm joining a 5 a side football league every Tuesday which will provide the cardio.

@Danzy - I'm still pretty new to this, and yeah I know my standards should be higher, but at the moment I'm just trying to build the confidence further and practice my game.

@JackWealthy - No offence taken, I was expecting to get a slating at first, it's all a part of improving, thanks for the advice I'll go about working on your solution ASAP.

@LearningSlowly - I plan too man, just trying to build get more confident in terms of escalating and being more sexual.

 

[LearningSlowly]

@LearningSlowly - I plan too man, just trying to build get more confident in terms of escalating and being more sexual.

No. I mean that you need to be approaching hot girls that you see every single day.

You have this beautiful opportunity of college. Some random girl you meet on the street might end up being your wife man. Approach! All the time!

 

[Gunner26]

Right, I've been out a while with a chest infection so there has been a huge gap since my last update. It kept me out all of the week before last so I didnt have anything to talk about. Have also had to play catchup with the gym.

Last Wednesday we went out clubbing as it was student night, there wasn't that many of us but we met an American girl from upstairs called Tara(HB7), she was out with 2 of her friends Lauren(HB6) and Hannah(HB6). Stayed with them a while and ended up getting with Lauren loads, I'm pretty sure I did nothing at all to spark her interest, the only conversation we'd ever had was hello and exchanging names, anyway got her number at the end of the evening and then went home with Piggy, haven't text her yet, but I have spoke to her since she was around Tara's the other day while I was upstairs talking to Cracker a guy I'm living with next year.
On that topic as well finally sorted housing out for next year completely, I’m going into the letting agency tomorrow to sign the tenancy agreement and then the room in the house is mine.

Thursday I went to lectures, played some xbox, went gym and wandered around my block talking to different people, at one point I just went got up and went to the newsagents a couple minutes away to try and start some convo's with people, didn't see ANYONE in the time it took me, that never happens here – but I did end up talking to the girl serving me, I found out her names Rosie(HB7) and we had a chat about alcohol because that was what I'd gone to get, I wasn't flirting or anything, just wanted to practice my conversation skills, and I'm going to be seeing her quite a lot anyway because she works in the shop every Wednesday and Thursday afternoon, as well as living in the student village a couple blocks away from me.

Friday we all decided to go out for some reason, normally we don't go out Fridays but go out on Saturday instead, the drinks turned out to be super cheap in the uni club everything except doubles was £1, we got wrecked and I then ended up at an Oceana were the drinks were buy 1 get 2 free. It was awesome, there weren't many people out, and those that were, were much the same as me – in massive groups of about 15-20 people, so I found it hard to approach anyone, even at the bar. I'll have to work on trying to open larger groups I think.

I don't have time to write out the rest of what happened tonight, I've got the day off tomorrow because my timetable means no lectures so I'll complete the update then and try post it sometime in the afternoon.

 

[Gunner26]

Heres the rest of the update. It's even longer then the one I put up yesterday, so I've split it into two posts to try and make it a little easier for you guys.

First off also on friday me and Jasmine(HB7) from upstairs made curry, she offered the other day and I went for it, spent a bit of time talking to her while everybody else pre-drank downstairs. It was an awesome curry.

We went out Saturday as well because there was an event on a bit like blind date, except the girls got to see who the guy was. It was a blast, there were 5 girls at a time up on the podium with torches and one guy came up one by one and was asked some questions by the DJ. If the girls didn't like what they heard or saw all they had to do was turn their torches out to basically eliminate themselves from the game and not 'go out' with the guy. I was looking forward to it until it turned out that I knew 4 of the girls, Laurie and Ciara turned their torches off straight away, giggling and telling everyone else to turn their lights off. The other two girls I knew were Katie(HB4) and Aileen(HB6), Katie turned her light off half way through which I wasn't really too bothered about and then the only girl up on the podium I didn't know turned her light off when I said I was doing a history degree :S. So I ended up getting a 'date' with Aileen, which really was just a bottle of champagne for participating, and a peck on the lips for the camera.

Sunday nought happened, lazed around in the flat, went for a kickabout as well. Monday was interesting, the theme at Oceana (our biggest club) was I love being single, they were giving out free condoms at the door and stuff like that. At any rate me and Emeritt went sarging in the club, danced with a couple girls on their own and got talking to some others by the bar, but nothing was really going for us. In the end we decided to just go back to our group and we had a good time for a while. I went off with Jasmine at one point to the other room because she was looking for some of her other friends, we couldn't find them and so we went to go back to our normal lot. Halfway there we just stopped and got talking outside the toilets, she was laughing, playing with her hair, loads of eye contact. I leant in to kiss her, but as I did some guy came through the double doors and trapped my fingers in the hinges, I didn't realise I'd had my fingers there, I had to leave her and go toilet to wash all the blood away which was depressing as s**t. I hardly saw her after that, only on the dancefloor with everyone else.

 

[Gunner26]

I didn't let this setback put me down, a little while later on my way back from the bar I saw a HB7 sitting by herself looking out on to the dancefloor, I just went over to her, smiled and said 'Your looking pretty lonely, where have all your friends gone' in a pretty concerned tone. She smiled back and told me that she was keeping away for the moment because her friend was off eating some guys face on the dancefloor. I took full advantage and sat down next to her and continued talking, casual flirting, teased her a bit for not having a man herself and resorting to sitting waiting for her friend to come back. I edged my seat a bit closer to her, she did the same, brushed her legs up against mine, then lay them on top of my lap, all my mates could see what was going on and gave me thumbs up and cheeky grins. We made out, her friend came back, I got her number and joined up with my mates again. Her name was 'Zoe'. It was my first completely dry approach, before this I'd only ever got with people I've met before, even Lauren the girl from the other day I'd kind of seen, just never had a conversation with her.

Tuesday was good as well, went to lectures and then came home cooked some food and went and played in the 5 a side league for the first time. We were actually pretty good, the standard wasn't as high as I thought it would be and we played 5 games, we lost the first one because our set up was rubbish, we weren't really very organised and they tore us apart, the second game was better, we drew 5-5 and then the last 3 games we won 4-1 8-1 and 5-3, it means that we are second in the league at the moment with another 10 games to play. Really looking forward to tuesday week when we can play again.

Today is Jasmines birthday and shes invited a load of her friends from home to the block to drink with us, it's also my friend Geriant's birthday on thursday so he has friends down too. Hopefully tonight will be awesome. Ill try and write up a report tomorrow, but no promises.

 

[Gunner26]

Well, the report the day after didn't happen did it In fact nothing happened, I've just been putting off writing my updates, it's real bad of me and I'm kinda disappointed in myself.

For those who don't want to read it all here's the summary – I've been out 4 times in the past 2 weeks, made out with a HB6 who was a friends older sister and a HB7 complete randomer whose name I didn't even need to ask. Was my friend Leroy's birthday, we went TGI Fridays and then to the local casino. Went for a stupidly long walk with Piggy until half 6 in the morning after one night out and tonight I'm playing football in my 5 a side league.


If you fancy a read here you go, I appreciate it if you do, and have done so already in the previous posts

So it's been about 2 weeks since I updated, that Wednesday was actually a really good night, my friends Victor and Ciara actually got together as a couple and I ended up pulling a HB6, that was an older sister of one of the girls from downstairs - Katie, she was 21. Also danced with some girl in one of the bars for a bit as she sought of pulled me away from going back downstairs to get back to my mates. Really I should of done something there, but I flopped, froze a bit and walked away. Guess the confidence/belief wasn't quite there and a bit of fear of rejection too, might be why I manned up later on and made a move on Katie's sister.
Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday were all taken up by work, had a couple essays which needed doing and I spent a lot of time in the library doing them, hopefully I've done okay in them and keep it around a 2.1 level like I have been so far this year.
Last Monday and Tuesday not a lot happened besides me going lectures and generally chilling in the block with everyone, Wednesday we went out to town again and I had a good time, was nothing special as there were only a few of us out and it basically ended with me having enough money left over to go to mcdonalds and to a kebab house – I was real hungry, when I got back I even made chips and ate them too before going for a walk with Piggy until about half 6 in the morning, had a great chat but it was weird me not wanting to go to bed.

Last Thursday we had another birthday, and for it we went to TGI Friday's, it tasted awesome, I had a TGI burger with chips as well as buffalo wings for a starter. Afterwards we went to the local casino, wasn't the best idea we've ever had, but I came out only a £10 down so I wasn't too bothered – Emeritt though came out £50 on top so offered to buy a round for everyone before we then went home.

Friday we went out, there was a good number of us as the Campus club is cheap - £1 for any drink except doubles, we got trashed and then people started moving about. Some just moved to the other room, a couple sat down for a bit. I was with Victor and probably 5-6 others on the dancefloor, one minute we were all dancing and the next 4 of them were making out, suffice to say me and Victor felt a bit akward standing in the middle of our friends getting off so he said to go get a drink, I went to follow him but as we were leaving I got eye contact with a HB7 who just smiled back at me, I told Victor to go ahead and that I'd meet him at the bar, walked over to the girl, we started grinding and in less then a minute we were getting off, it felt great. My friend John thought it would be a good idea to take a picture or two which I didn't realise at the time until he showed me the next morning. Afterwards we all went home, not with the girl though as she left to go find her friends I never even got her name..... Ended up back at the block spooning with a girl called Jay(HB8) and 2 others, a guy called Reilly and a girl called Simi(HB5).
Since then nothing has happened, I've got football tonight and then we are going out tommorow. This time, I will post a report up on Thursday.

 

[LearningSlowly]

I went to follow him but as we were leaving I got eye contact with a HB7 who just smiled back at me, I told Victor to go ahead and that I'd meet him at the bar, walked over to the girl, we started grinding and in less then a minute we were getting off, it felt great.

Nice move. You reacted as soon as you thought to. Perfect example of immediacy leading to a close.

Keep putting yourself out there. Give us more to read!