"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One Man...Two Women, One Fvcked up situation (In Movie Preview Voice)

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Ok, there's 2 girls. Girl A and Girl B. And there's me.

I like Girl A a lot and I work with her, and haven't hooked up with her yet, we've gone out, we had a somewhat drunken romantic evening I guess you could say, but nothing past us sleeping on her couch together.

Then there's Girl B. A Foreign exchange student who calls me all the time, and we always end up having sex almost every night, whom I don't really care for that much. I can't help it, she's just not my type. Plus she can't understand a fvcking word I say to her, it gets old, let me tell you.

They both know eachother, and Girl A knows i'm sleeping with Girl B. Now what would be the best situation here for me to get Girl A? Ditch Girl B?

I'm not even 100% sure that Girl A likes me that way, i'm almost sure, but not enough to ditch constant @ss know what i mean?

I do REALLY like Girl A a lot though. Like...*cough*girlfriend*cough* status.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yo vato, u in cali? Give me the foreign exchange student bro, ill take her off ur hands man
 

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How does Girl A know that you're sleeping with Girl B?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
How does Girl A know that you're sleeping with Girl B?
Well, Girl B sells fake ID's, and Girl A wanted one, and I really like Girl A so I hooked up her up by having Girl B take a photo/make the ID for her...then a few days later Girl A says "you hooked up with Girl B didn't you?" in a playful voice.

And I just smiled so she got the point.

I feel like i'm playing the jealousy card here on purpose. Is that fvkced up to do?

And Badmannaz, I know that rule, and I haven't expirienced it first-hand in a bad way, i've never fvcked around with a girl I work with, and the only way I learn is by expirience so until I find a situation like that where it doesn't work out, i'll try it. I never have.

But I need some honest to goodness opinions here, I'm having second thoughts about Girl A's feelings toward me, she's giving me really mixed signals here. I would dump Girl B in a second to have Girl A.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh one more thing, Girl A is encouraging me to hang out with Girl B, like she wants me to. Is she just trying to throw me off?
 

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T Money said:
And I just smiled so she got the point.
Ouch, that could come back to bite you in the @ss. She was only fishing y'know.

T Money said:
I feel like i'm playing the jealousy card here on purpose. Is that fvkced up to do?
I don't know, what has she done to deserve it? What do you expect to happen, realistically?
T Money said:
I would dump Girl B in a second to have Girl A.
So why don't you? Isn't Girl A worth the chance?
 

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Well, Girl B sells fake ID's, and Girl A wanted one, and I really like Girl A so I hooked up her up by having Girl B take a photo/make the ID for her...
No too smart.

then a few days later Girl A says "you hooked up with Girl B didn't you?" in a playful voice.

And I just smiled so she got the point.
Very amateurish move.

I feel like i'm playing the jealousy card here on purpose. Is that fvkced up to do?
If you want to play the jealousy game (without she deserving it)...be sure to understand that all she has to do if find another man and phuck his brains out. Then walk around with him so you can get the point. Who do you think would feel more jealous?
 

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Well i'm going to see her tonight and tell her that we broke it off, because I like someone else, then i'll tell her that it's this girl I work with named "Girl A" (real name).
 
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