One-itis: How does an AFC prevent it?

[evasive]

I'm a guy that has very little female contact. I will go through a college semester, probably making at most 1 friend who is a girl. I don't have any friends who are girls who I can call up to "hang out".
The problem is the moment a girl shows slight interest in me, I fall into one-itis in the snap of the finger. What happens is, I go through months of zero to little female conversing. Then when ONE girl comes along and shows interest (maybe kinos me or something), I become so happy and excited and thinking "wow a girl actually f**king likes me"

What happens when I get one-itis?
Stalkery, nervousness, acting like a WUSS whenever the girl is in my presence. Thinking about her all the f**king time.



sigh

 

[Bible_Belt]

You don't prevent it; you learn to deal with it. No one can completely control all of their thoughts and emotions. What you can control is your behavior - your words and actions that the girl sees. Read about the type of man that women like, fine tune it a little to the particular girl, and then act like that man. Women are easy to fool into thinking that you are exactly the man they want, because they want to believe it. When you get good at it, you get better with girls and will have some successes. Then is when you will realize that everyone is replaceable, and you will get oneitis less each time. Even if it never goes completely away, you can learn to deal with it, and not let it hurt your success.

 

[KoalaKing]

One-itis is great if you are an AlphaMale who has found a compatable lady, but it is terrible for the AFC who is enslaved to some woman that he doesn't enjoy being with. :yes:

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

evasive, you basically stated the solution to your problem in your post.

I'm a guy that has very little female contact...I don't have any friends who are girls who I can call up to "hang out".

Get more female contact. Make more female friends.

If you go out and get 20 girls numbers, 1 individual girl won't seem so significant anymore will she?

 

[KoalaKing]

evasive, you basically stated the solution to your problem in your post.



Get more female contact. Make more female friends.

If you go out and get 20 girls numbers, 1 individual girl won't seem so significant anymore will she?

He could become like my freinds Dad, Mr Gale, who being a horny young 20 year old AFC loser guy in the 1950's who didn't attract the hot babes of his day, married the ugly Mrs Gale, out of his need for a regular fvck, but when he made it to 40 some twenty years later he was able to attract hot young babes aged in their mid 20's, dare I say it, he started to fvck many of them, however he remains married to Mrs Gale to this day, due to his having four children to her, his pen!s however is continuously entering the puzzies of many more attractive younger babes, he goes on long holidays alone, telling her he is working, he is doing that as well, but he is fvcking hotter babes, I pity, Mrs Gale, if she ever contracts an STD due to, Mr Gale's, adulterous behaviour, he has the cake and eats it too, but who wants to really live like this.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

He could become like my freinds Dad, Mr Gale, who being a horny young 20 year old AFC loser guy in the 1950's who didn't attract the hot babes of his day, married the ugly Mrs Gale, out of his need for a regular fvck, but when he made it to 40 some twenty years later he was able to attract hot young babes aged in their mid 20's, dare I say it, he started to fvck many of them, however he remains married to Mrs Gale to this day, due to his having four children to her, his pen!s however is continuously entering the puzzies of many more attractive younger babes, he goes on long holidays alone, telling her he is working, he is doing that as well, but he is fvcking hotter babes, I pity, Mrs Gale, if she ever contracts an STD due to, Mr Gale's, adulterous behaviour, he has the cake and eats it too, but who wants to really live like this.

I love the story. The older Mr. Gale is awesome! I'm sure Mrs. Gale was a b1tch while he was an AFC so it's karma.

 

[DJDamage]

Get more female contact. Make more female friends.

He doesn't need female friends to feel comfortable with women, in his situation right now trying to get female friend's is counterproductive since he will get oneitis for them and they will use him for their own benefits.

Make contact period. Start up small conversations with strangers. Going to the mall is a good start because upon entering a clothing store people who work there will want to talk to you and you can easily strike a conversation. The more you do the better you will get and you will be more comfortable with strangers and then by being more comfrotable and friendly you will be better in attracting more girls and won't rely on attracting just one.

 

[KoalaKing]

I love the story. The older Mr. Gale is awesome! I'm sure Mrs. Gale was a b1tch while he was an AFC so it's karma.

Mrs Gale, was, still is, and always has been, and always will be a total b!tch, Mr Gale's, being an AFC or a DJ is never going to change that.
I guess, Mr Gale's, reasons for staying with her are many, they have three sons and a daughter, own an expensive home together, but if I was him I still would have left her. :yes:

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Mrs Gale, was, still is, and always has been, and always will be a total b!tch, Mr Gale's, being an AFC or a DJ is never going to change that.
I guess, Mr Gale's, reasons for staying with her are many, they have three sons and a daughter, own an expensive home together, but if I was him I still would have left her. :yes:

Well, he has his reasons and sh1t he's living the DJ life so I guess things could be a lot worse.

He doesn't need female friends to feel comfortable with women, in his situation right now trying to get female friend's is counterproductive since he will get oneitis for them and they will use him for their own benefits.

Make contact period. Start up small conversations with strangers.

Better said DJDamage. That was what I was implying, but I was thinking if he made female friends it would give social proof and he could bust their balls. But yeah, JUST BE SOCIAL MAN.