"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ONE-I-TIS girl back(i miss her)

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she is back...and wow..its tough...I mean she is so hot...and her voice and sense of humor is just sends chills down my spine...I am trying so hard not to PUNK HER ***** ASS OUT!

miss her my ass....I hope she never callsl me again...she is annoying...I look at her like a big ****ing loser..she went back to her guy that treated her like ****..now she can see how I do :) and she wants to get back in on me...like im still SOME AFC! *****n B*tch....now she can learn the lesson of wht happens to people who use people...when her bad boy boyfriend gets rid of her or continues his illustrrious trend of cheating on her..she will see what happens when..

what the fyck am I saying obviously she dont give a ****...she never did thats why I was thrown to the side like a rag doll when he came back.

atleast I grabbed my balls in sept of 2004 and took over my life and now dominate each everyday like Jordan in his prime.


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It sounds like you have some anger issues with your one-i-tis. There's no reason for you to be this mad at her. What did you expect her to do? Back then you were an AFC and she did what any other girl would've done and dumped you b/c you were an AFC. It's not her fault for hurting you, it's yours for not being DJuan enough to get her.

You should see the situation like this: b/c of her you found this site. Therefore in a way she was indirectly responsibe for you finding this site.

Now, I don't think she's trying to play games with you. She probably see you have change and it has spark her interests. Clearly you still have feelings for her; otherwise why would you care what she does. Instead of wasting your time b1tching about her, use what you have learn to try to get her again. I'm sure she'll be more receptive to you now.
 
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lol you guys really look deep into stuff..It was a JOKE!

I blew it out of proportion for fun man...thats why no one repsonded..

the point was how at one point..she ate up all the stuff I did for her...now she is back peddling and ive taken leaps to my current place...and no...I have no feelings for her....I posted it to show current people in that situation that it doenst have to be that way!
 
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That was a dumb joke.

How can we tell that you were being serious or not? I don't know you. I can't tell if that's how you behave regularly. Therefore it was a dumb joke b/c you assume we know what your personality is like, which we do not. Also it isn't a good joke b/c there are people on this board that would post that and are actually serious. :eek:
 
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