"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One hell of a story!!! Wtf is going on?!? Experts!!!

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Chase24 said:
Not to be a d1ck but I registered just to post this. She's a slut. She's getting her rocks off by leading around a 27 year old. Girls that age love to control older guys- I guarantee she's telling her friends how she has you whipped.

Why not just go after someone 23-24. They're basically just as hot, they're (usually) not as whacked in the head, and you're not pulling pedofile status on someone under 21.

I feel like you're just painting this picture in your head because it sounds like a movie or some bs. Girl that was way too young for you, and you keep in touch and then finally fall in love once she's older. Just dumb. Go hook up with some other girls. Either she'll completely start chasing you and you win, or you (hopefully) figure out she's not all that she's cut out to be, and you really win.
Welcome. Please do stick around :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vagrant. Please get a grip. This girl is 20 years old. People don't know their head from their assh*le at that age...you are not dealing with an emotionally mature individual and you cannot change the way she behaves.

You are not married to this person...you haven't been exclusive to her....and you are already investing too much time into her. She is not capable of giving back to you what you give to her.

Here's what you should do....and you'll do this starting today:

Be different from all of those AFC chumps who text her constantly, "like" everything she does on Facebook, retweet her crap. Simply go ghost for awhile. She'll wonder why you are so different from the rest of the Betas who follow her around like lost dogs.

You've already f*cked her...do you know what that means? You are in pretty good standing. Girls that age will go absolutely crazy over a guy who bangs them and just ignores them afterwards. So that's what you are going to do...ignore her and watch her spin out of control. You are regaining the power that she has over you. And guess what? Women LOVE Power.

Scarcity means value. People want what they can't have. Think of what she is doing to you. Whenever she hangs out with another guy, it's means you aren't hanging out with her. That's when you desire her. If she was constantly texting you all day and didn't have other options, she wouldn't be desirable, would she?

You are going to turn the tables on this girl. Become SCARCE. You said it yourself that you are the prize...now starting acting like it. In fact, get a fvcking Sharpie and write P-R-I-Z-E across your hand to remind yourself.

No more wimpering posts for now on. Come back when you start acting ALPHA with some proof.
There's some really ****ty posts in this thread. This is one of the few good ones with good advice. Bravo. I would like to add, the more you take a step back from her and get out there and game other girls, the more you will realize that she really isn't "the one" and that there's plenty of other girls out there that will treat you much better.

Chase24 said:
Not to be a d1ck but I registered just to post this. She's a slut. She's getting her rocks off by leading around a 27 year old. Girls that age love to control older guys- I guarantee she's telling her friends how she has you whipped.

Why not just go after someone 23-24. They're basically just as hot, they're (usually) not as whacked in the head, and you're not pulling pedofile status on someone under 21.

I feel like you're just painting this picture in your head because it sounds like a movie or some bs. Girl that was way too young for you, and you keep in touch and then finally fall in love once she's older. Just dumb. Go hook up with some other girls. Either she'll completely start chasing you and you win, or you (hopefully) figure out she's not all that she's cut out to be, and you really win.
I completely agree. Another good post.
 
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