One guy talking all the girls....

[Movements]

I'm in highschool and there is one guy who has all the girls in our school under his grip, which is actually quite annoying but seeing him do this and then the girls come back to him, his game works for him but is there anything I can do to progress with any of the girls in high school, I have resorted to approaching girls out of school (which I believe helps me as I build up the balls to talk to the girl) however I refuse to even bother with any of the girls in our school as I don't want to put a bit of effort into something and then see one guy completely bulldoze over all of my efforts.

 

[horaholic]

Pay attention to what he does. Thats the only thing you can do, is learn from the guy.

 

[Jhcl4000]

Too bad you're in Highschool and getting sex from a hot 17 year old in Highschool is like winning the lottery.

 

[Movements]

yhhh I have seen what he does but I dont want to copy him as what works for him probably won't work for me as I am more funny and clownish guy and he is a more serious yet funny person

 

[alwayslead8821]

It's just doing the basics things to improve yourself. Girls will notice, like dressing nicer, working out etc. One of the big things that you probably have read on here 100 times is confidence. I was the class clown but lacked the confidence. The main thing I would suggest to do that is to always think about your positive features and I always think I am a GREAT catch and get rid of all my negative thoughts. Thinking thoughts like that just sends out almost like a aura of confidence mixed with being funny and you will start to be able to control the girls. I find that walking around with just a slight smile helps add to that to cause you just seem happy and confident and offcorse, eye contact. Never look away from the girl that is talking to you wait till she looks away..

 

[Proselytiser]

horaholic said it....

 

[Movements]

Yeah I've learnt that I need to have more positive thoughts and all the bad thoughts:
Gossip
Jealousy
Negativeness
out of my head, it is quite hard but I am going to try and see the good in people and telling myself my good features and that I am a confident person I just need to be more consistent, and work more on my confidence

 

[Phat]

When i was in high school, i could get pretty much about any girl i wanted. I used to steal girls from even the most attractive guys. Only because i was very confident and serious. I started talking to every girl, every cute teacher. I did not care. I talked to girls with boyfriends. You just gotta get out there and start talking to every girl. It doesnt have to be full conversations. You just gotta get your self out there until your known as that confident guy who talks to all the girls. I remember i would only use "hi im phat, whats your name?" after 2 weeks of approaching girls at school. A girl came up to me that i approached in the hall and told me her friend liked me! Her friend just happened to be a girl i approached in study hall. I only talked to the girl once. I ended up dating that girl for 2 years. She picked me over the biggest jerk in school. Because i was, cool, confident, and serious. And funny at the right moments.

You said your funny and clownish...im gonna tell you right now to cut that shiit out...dont act like a clown. Nobody likes bozo the clown. You gotta be serious. Instead be funny at the right time. Being funny all the time is the most unattractive thing you could do.

The kind of humor i used to get girls was called " dare humor" in study hall i would have my groupie of girls who i talked to. I would be like "you girls wanna see my putt my ass in that kids face?" they would be like "o my god, you wont do that!!!!" i would get up and put my ass in that persons face and the girls would be screaming with laughter in the background.

 

[Movements]

Thanks Phat that made the most sense, I started doing that but relapsed but I am going to push harder now and talk to more people, and that clown stuff is very true I am going to start being more serious and cool, how would u react if you opened a girl and then another girl said "are you trying to chat her up?"

 

[Phat]

Girl says " are you trying to chat her up?" be like " why are you being rude and interupting, i can only talk to one girl at a time"

She will laugh, then be like " next time, raise your hand"

 

[Movements]

Thanks very much any more points of advice for the budding Dj in high school? regarding confidence

 

[alwayslead8821]

It depends on what kind of humor you are using. If you can be funny and confident at the same time you will do better then being to serious. Most people in highschool to be funny usually make themselves look stupid or something similar. That is not what you want to do you want to make yourself look good and be confident at the same time. Just don't make yourself look like a dumbass.. You definitly do need to have the serious side also especially when you are considering a girl cause they will not get the signals to get there emotions going if you are funny alllll the time. If she knows that you are happy confident and funny, hell isn't that about the whole package?

 

[Phat]

A good way to be confident is by being the leader in every class activitiy. Be serious at all times in class, do good on your work. Start saying hi to your teachers, start saying good morning to your teachers. Become a teachers pet, its the best way to gain power over students. Plus you will feel good about your self. Say hi to your princible, tell your princible you think he/shes is doing a good job. And that they have the coolest job in the world. Youll end up being so popular. Youll feel really good. Girls will see this confident behavior and youll look so much better than that other guy.