"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One Good Thing About Surviving A BPD..

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Today I did something the SoSuave community might consider lazy and sloppy; I texted my ex after 16 months of no contact.

But it wasn't my BPD ex. It was her replacement.

Shortly after BPD got really rocky, a wild rebound girl appeared and hung around for about 6 months. I was one jaded son of a ***** at the time and had a nearly perfect aloof alpha standing in the relationship. This little thing trailed me like a puppy. Then after my father died I began to heavily neglect her sexually & emotionally and the ****-testing started, but I promptly dumped her and moved to Florida.

Fast cut 16 months and now I am back in NY for the summer and stumbled upon an old notebook with a bunch of old numbers. I've had a lot of fun connecting with old friends and when I saw her number, I thought why not. My fear of rejection was near nil and sure enough, her first text was super rude and skeptical. But I plowed right through that garbage and got her to ask me "So do you wanna catchup?"

We're on for Friday at 8:30 pm. I put the possibility of a revenge flake around 50%, but I am prepared and would put the potential sting of this flake as very low.

She was a pretty wild girl that came from a religious background (you know how wild they can be) and she expressed interest in having a threesome with another girl back in 2014 and that is the primary reason I reached it. If I can successfully hook her again Friday night then I have two months here in NYC to pull off a feat I haven't yet and get two girls in my bed at the same time.

Moral of the story: when you survive the BPD demoness, no LTR (especially those in the immediate aftermath) fazes you the same. In fact, you are mostly immune to the games from another girl because you are coming out of an ungodly oneitis.

If this other ex comes through, this is the easiest seduction in human history.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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