One Give / One Take from SS

[logicallefty]

Name ONE thing you feel is your top quality\thing you contribute\GIVE to SS.

Name ONE thing that is your top\favorite\biggest thing you TAKE\RECEIVE from SS.

I will start:

Give: My life experience dealing with some really REALLY crazy azz situations\people\bvll**** (ex: marrying a bigamist, working for a sociopath, etc.) and translating that into knowledge and humor that (hopefully) helps the rest of you get through your own life struggles.

Take: SS is the only place I get to talk to a large group of people where the majority of which are sane, logical and like minded as myself. To me, this is therapy because in my other areas of life the sane and logical people are hit and miss between mostly nut jobs and folks who do not think like I do.

I encourage everyone to respond.

 

[ubercat]

Give: I have a variety of interests. Probably been a solid all rounder across a range of threads.
Take: I was pretty lazy in my game. I did a little bit and some acceptable girlfriend would turn up.
SS taught me not only do you still need to keep it up in LTRs but the game has changed a lot over the last 10 years or so. There's a lot of guys here I've picked up practical tactics from especially on date Logistics and keeping frame without being an arse hat.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Give: Just a little of philosophical background to some redpill topics, and I try to encourage guys when they are a little low.
Takeaway: Energy, a lot of energy, and wisdom about women and the sexual marketplace. This place has changed me a lot, and I'm sure it will continue on doing so even more when I start FReporting.

 

[wifehunter]

Give: decades of expirience with the Ladies
Takeaway: entertainment

What a great thread!!! Thanks!

 

[Glumix]

Give: Share my own personal views and little experiences on subjects with a more philosophical/psychological background.
Take: SS helps me resolve my issues with myself, and also make me discover and understand the Red Pill more deeply. And a place where I can actually share about it without getting murdered by feminists.


Positive: SS is a good place where you can share a lot and read a lot of different perspectives regarding life through the eyes of men from which you will probably find what suits you the most.
Negative: SS often rides on the downward spiral of negativity. I try to avoid those kind of threads a lot more than before. Often way too much misogyny, cynism and paranoïa for my taste.

 

[zekko]

Give: I think at best, I can act as a buffer from some of the more extreme points of view. I have a lot of years of life experience, and things are never quite as bad as some of the guys here would like you to believe.

Take: I find motivation in the accomplishments of some of the posters here. Guys who worked hard to discipline themselves and self-improve. Also the subject matter is interesting.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Give : answers as to why women do some of the stupid stuff they do based on a wealth of experience with just about every type of woman you could imagine

take : other guys failures

 

[Huffman]

Give: Practical tips from experience. My advice is valuable because I used to be an average loser, but recently I've racked up quite the string of accomplishments. I was never a natural, I tried many things and what works for me can work for anyone.

Take: Something is missing and I can't put my finger on it. In the meantime I turn to SS for advice, encouragement and motivation to become the man I want to be.

 

[Asmodeus]

Give: Encouragement toward self-empowerment... To create strength where there is weakness and show people that they hold both all the power of their life and their choices as well as the responsibility of them. I can also provide some unique insight into psychology and motivations from a different perspective.

Take: This site provides A bit of relief for incessant boredom that I feel, having an outlet to focus my energy on something that is constructive, or at the very least benign. Feeding my curiosity and enjoying interesting discussion.

 

[Desdinova]

Name ONE thing you feel is your top quality\thing you contribute\GIVE to SS.

The real understanding that women function on what they feel. They make all their decisions based on what their emotions are telling them. You'll never have to question why she takes so fvcking long picking something from a restaurant menu.

Name ONE thing that is your top\favorite\biggest thing you TAKE\RECEIVE from SS.

Other peoples' viewpoints. When something clicks with me, I'll find ways to expand on it and truly understand it. There are some extremely bright people on this site, and many of their thoughts and opinions add a lot of valuable insight into how things function in the real world.

 

[BeExcellent]

Give: Encouragement to be your best self based on my life experiences as a woman/wife/mom/businessperson; Also insight into women and "frame" from a woman with experience in the nightlife business; finally to (I hope) demonstrate that there do exist sane, attractive, reasonable women in the world.

Take: I was always a Tomboy of sorts and always loved hanging out with the guys. It's nice to come here and get real perspective on everything male. I also take away the belief that there are some wonderful men in the world and I enjoy the exchange of experience. It makes me laugh, and smile...and sometimes facepalm.