"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One day hot, The next day cold.

jakeyboy

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just wanted to share a story with you guys

so there's this chick i've been seeing. went on 2 dates with her, and after date 2, she was all over me and stuff... snuggling up to me and leaning in sooooo close.

so i kissed her. and we made out blah blah blah

i didn't try to bonk her then, i genuinely was interested in this chick.

so the next day, she tells me that what happened the day before was a mistake and that she still loves her ex and can't get into a relationship right now for fear of letting me down or some f*cking BS like that.

so i said. ok... do what you please with your life, i never wanted to be a part of it anyway.

so now this chick's attending class with me... i'm going to play it cool, as if nothing ever happened and see what she decides to do.

alrgiht mates... so i just wanted to know why some chicks do this, cos i can't think of anything logical to conclude.

was it in a moment of fun? i suspect that.

oh well.... NEXT!!!!!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ignore her, if she is really interesed in you (wich I think she is based on your past experience), she will come after you. Flirt with other girls in front of her and watch what happens.
 

Qmanchoo

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What the hell jake, women aren't crazy. They are ****ing nuts!

They just follow what they feel because they trust feelings over anything else thinking they they are right. And feelings dont make one god damn bit of logical sense sometimes. One of the reasons why some girls are such an easy lay. Make her her feel sexy = get sex. Make her feel like you're a boyfriend = get a girlfriend. Although the smarter a woman is the more complex that equation gets...but anyway...

And then you get women who are feeling different things for different guys at the same time lol. Like your situation. She probably broke up with her ex and used you for emotional support of the "want a man to hold so I feel safe and secure and rebuff my ego a little after my breakup" kind.

And then once those feelings were satisfied she jumped back to her ex.
 

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She is confused. Let her go. She might possibly come back to you for one reason or another, but it will only last a short time. You dont need a girl like this in your life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It could be any number of things...I agree with CLOONEY, you don't need that hot and cold bullsh-t. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure out a chick like that. NEXT!!
 

jakeyboy

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yeah i sort of figured that she was using me to satisfy her ego needs. she's fvcking with my head. ugh. now i'm gonna fvck with hers. i'm going to flirt like hell with her and with other girls in front of her, then ignore her.

and if she does come crawling baack... too late b*tch. NEXXXXXXXXXT.


thanks for your feedback guys. appreciate it. :rock:
 
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