"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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one arm larger than the other

blackbelt2k

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So my "arm" workout is just 4-5x5 sets of weighted dips. I'm currently doing this with 90lbs hanging from me. I've noticed that my right arm is larger than my left, specificlly the long head of the triceps. I don't understand how, since a dip is a dip, you can't favor a side in a dip, both arms must push you up. Anyway, what exercises can I do to correct the difference?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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None.

It will work itself out and you are likely too small overall to worry about minor differences.

But if you must then of course you use two dumbbells and don't let the stronger/bigger arm do more reps/weight than the weaker one.
 

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Yeah, I had the same problem. I used to not even be able to make a legit muscle with my left arm, but people told me right right bicep looked like popeye. Now both are even. I didn't do any specific exercises to strengthen the left arm, it just caught up on its own.
 

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Rapha' Nadal (Tennis) has the same physique, work out slightly more with the weak arm, extra reps/load
 
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