Hullothere
Don Juan
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So met this girl about 1.5 years ago, we hit it off well and became a couple. Several months into the relationship, I made a few bad business investments that basically killed me financially. Long story short: ruined my perfect credit, in debt, and got layed off somewhere in between to boot. Needless to say it shook my confidence quite a bit and stressed me out. The gf had been amazing throughout all these times and I couldn't ask for anything more. But she did witness my lifestyle deteriorate and comments from older family members about getting my **** together. Not to mention see the stress that I was under.
Well about 3 months ago noticed a significant drop off in frequency of sex. Brought it up 2 weeks ago but really haven't seen any tangible change. Shes never in the mood or willing to initiate. I thought about the causes and narrowed it down to her losing respect/attraction to me. Can't say I blame her, I'd probably be thinking the same thing.
Well at this point in my life I'm at the starting line of getting my **** back together. This is the 4th week of my new job that pays very well. However I'm still under massive stress to dig myself out of the hole I put myself in. With that in mind and the loss of spark from the GF I decided to break up with her today. That will let me focus on myself and improving which is one of the great opportunities of being single. But I still can't help but think is a relationship that turns like that even salvageable in your opinion?
Well about 3 months ago noticed a significant drop off in frequency of sex. Brought it up 2 weeks ago but really haven't seen any tangible change. Shes never in the mood or willing to initiate. I thought about the causes and narrowed it down to her losing respect/attraction to me. Can't say I blame her, I'd probably be thinking the same thing.
Well at this point in my life I'm at the starting line of getting my **** back together. This is the 4th week of my new job that pays very well. However I'm still under massive stress to dig myself out of the hole I put myself in. With that in mind and the loss of spark from the GF I decided to break up with her today. That will let me focus on myself and improving which is one of the great opportunities of being single. But I still can't help but think is a relationship that turns like that even salvageable in your opinion?