Once you get them to like you...

[Baseball05]

What's up guys, I've been reading around this site for a month or so, good stuff. Anyways, I've been applying a lot of this stuff to my life, and I feel better, have more friends and life is kicking ass. However, I'm gettin girls to like me left and right. See, the problem is once I get them to like me I start to slack. I don't know if I'm just scared to get into a relationship or don't know how to handle it once I got them. Pretty much, I'm not gettin any, even though I have multiple girls in the bag. How can I come through on these ladies.

 

[Bling]

"I know you want to get with me... So what's a better day for you, Friday or Saturday?"

 

[Baseball05]

Other ideas anyone?

 

[Jerky Boi]

Here's an answer to your question. The fun for you is all in the initial meeting, and once you get them, it's pretty much like "eh, it's not fun anymore because I already have them."

So, instead of thinking about it like this, try and take it a step further. We can't tell you collectively any techniques that would work best for you, you have to find out about it for yourself. Good luck.

 

[Alpha_Animal]

You have the attitude and all that down mostly it seems, which is great. I found that I was only looking to attract girls and not take it any further. Your nervous and you're focus starts to go to you pleasing them most probably but remember you've done your part let them prove theirselves to you. I go through three stages of qualification.

1)Is she good looking enough: If yes I talk to her.
2)What kind of personality does she have, is it one I want?: I constantly am analysing this during the conversation. Is she fun enough? Is she making me laugh? Is she worth my time? Is she intelligent?
3)Is she maintaining her qualifications: When I go out with her then if I have a good time I'll keep going out with her but if not Ill dump her(maybe after 2 times in a row if she conveys all other personality traits).

Focus on your feelings and what shes contributing to those feelings.

 

[Baseball05]

I catch your drift alpha. How will she benefit my life is the real question

 

[Baseball05]

bu bu bump any more?

 

[Bling]

How about listening to what we said, and apply it instead of asking for more.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

i was here once...

had all the girls hanging off me, but i wasn't getting any vagina

i discovered the solution, its really quite simple

if you want to get laid, then DO IT!

invite them over to your house to hang out, then put the moves on them. don't worry about trying to make them like you by then, they already do. just be funny, enjoy yourself and when the moment is right, kiss her. right on the lips