Once rejected, always rejected?

[LonelyGuy2k4]

Well I liked this one girl for a while and I asked her out. We did go out and it went well and everything but it turns out that she just wanted to be friends. The thing is that I got mixed signals from her for a while and I told her how I felt and I got no response. I had to hear from a friend that she didnt like me. Long story short, I got rejected, but now a days she's been acting really friendly for no reason. So I just want to know that if one is rejected, can that person ever have a second chance? If the likely answer is no, then I'm gonna just try my hardest to forget her. Feedback would really help.

 

[Sart]

too needy

Mate, most guys probablt have more than one shot at any girl. The ladder theory isn't exactly true. In your case it sounds like you dont really know this chick that well, AND, you seem a little desperate.

Not meant as criticism, seriously, you just come accross as a bloke who "kind of" gets this chick. You poored your shyte at her? I have done that, but always from a stronger position, you did that why?

I think you have no chance, only because I read between the lines, but, if I am wrong, sorry.

I have poored over a chick who needed it, and put her on a back burner. But, I was still a Man....if that makes sense. Try to be a man, not a boy. I really am not trying to offend.

 

[slipstreamer83]

This is exactly what is happening to me now. There´s a girl that I liked, she started sending me buying signals. I told her to go out, and she didn´t want. After that, we spent some time without any contact.

But for this week we have been studying together. She literally presses her breasts on me, and I want to talk about getting together again. If she rejects me again, I will speak with her, and I will ask her to explain me why does she presses her tits on me. I just hate it when these bytches show heavy interest but are not interested at all. My recommendation is that you also do what I want to do.

 

[dearsappho]

1 rejection dont mean its the end...try again and if she rejects again pull back.

Keep doing this, but tell yourself not to get emotional if she keeps rejecting you. It cant hurt to have a bit of fun with this bird can it?

If she goes you win and if you get her you win. Nothing is finite in this life no matter wot this board or otherwise tells you.

 

[AverageFC]

eh, I've found the ladder theory quite logical

 

[So Many Ways]

Don't talk, act.

 

[belividere]

agreed that rejection doesn't always falter to some persistence. I would keep an eye open to make sure that here attempts at re-contacting you are not purely for friendship or because she is an attention whre. And definetly dont take it as a defeat if you are rejected again but just at least know that you tried what you wanted to and that is the most important thing.

 

[Void]

you...you...TOLD HER HOW YOU FELT?! no wonder she didn't respond! you vomited you're feelings on her! no vomiting!

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by ireallywantgirls
you...you...TOLD HER HOW YOU FELT?! no wonder she didn't respond! you vomited you're feelings on her! no vomiting!

You vomit your feelings every time you post, "ireallywantgirls"... at least, your username spells out what you're feeling in black and white.

Yes, it's possible to have a "second shot" at things. There are no absolutes in life... and I agree with the others in the thread that it sounds like you've got some serious work to do on your game before you can accomplish a lot...

 

[LonelyGuy2k4]

Haha, yah I know now the error of my ways. I shall try and see where she stands in this relationship. In due time, Ill find out if she would want to get together or not. Thanks a lot for all of the feeback.

 

[Fenderules]

get togethor as "just friends" what i mean by this is that you are gonna hang out as only friends (from her prespective), tell her that, and act as if you like another girl..or even a couple (maby dating perhaps). her gaurd will go down because she will not have to worry about emo vomit. And then have fun! if she responds, add kino and add more. She will not know wut hit her.