"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Once i get the girl i lose it?

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The_Mole

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this happen to anyone else?

i dating the girl and once she likes me i lose interest in her
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Corleone

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yeah I've had this problem too. Once a girl is all over me the chase is gone. I need a girl to play hard to get a little in order to stay attracted to her. Attraction works both ways for males and females, no one wants a needy stalker.
 
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Deadly_Assassin

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are u going out with these chicks for an ego boost or actually wanting a relationship with them?
are you going out with them because u only like them for their looks or for their personality as well?
u kinda seem to want a gf just for the sake of saying I have a gf.
 
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The_Mole

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hahah, u r right deadly


i've been studying this website for years and finally started the dating game


this website got it so i feel like i can get any women i want


so i have the drive to not stop until i get the perfect 10
 
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