"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Once again...

Lord Sidious

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...something strange is happening to me.

As much as one say that fortunely, due to our experience with women, we don´t fall again in the same trap, things seem to work out in the oposite way.

So, once more I´m getting involved with the wrong type of women. That´s not strange, as it seems I´m prone to that. Well, this time I find myself thinking more than I should about a bright, charming, sexy and beautiful brunette women.

But, that´s great, isn´t it? Well, no really. This women is 10 years younger than me (22), and it is very religious (Evangelical)...! More especifically:

- I know her for about 2 months. She works with me. One day, out of nowhere (never having seen her), she walked into my office asking me to help her personally in a question of work. From that on, she shows IOI, jealous of other women, texts me several times, etc. There´s here a problem, though - she says she loves God above everything (wich I trully respect), and she made a vow to Him that she would never kiss any man again (or make love again) until she married with a man that share her religious ideas.

Pretty messy, hah? Well, that´s what I think, but still I feel drawn to this women. Sometimes I think she´s just an attention *****, other times I do believe in her and I simply feel she is also emotionally involved with me, but knows that we have big religious divergences, and therefore, that explains her several setbacks...!

According to her, her and her ex broke up because of religious divergences...! Needless to say that I simply wouldn´t wait for marriage to have sex with her (much less kissing her).

The problem is that I find myself thinking too much about her, and that´s bad. I do, however act like a man with her (gentleman, but as a MAN) and she seems to like that.

So, guys, what do you think about this?


Take care!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lord Sidious...cure your oneitis, you must. Go for other women.

Dangerous, the Dark Side is. Obsessing over one women is the path to the Dark Side. Obsessing leads to emasculation, emasculation leads to faggotry, faggotry leads to AFC-ness.

An AFC's defiance I sense in you. Need that you do not. Different women, you must focus on. Agree with this, the Council does.

Much to learn, you still have.
 

Lord Sidious

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LOOOOOOOL!!!! Great post!


Thanks for your opinion!



JonJaper said:
Lord Sidious...cure your oneitis, you must. Go for other women.

Dangerous, the Dark Side is. Obsessing over one women is the path to the Dark Side. Obsessing leads to emasculation, emasculation leads to faggotry, faggotry leads to AFC-ness.

An AFC's defiance I sense in you. Need that you do not. Different women, you must focus on. Agree with this, the Council does.

Much to learn, you still have.
 
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