"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trolls are pretty easy to detect. As we've seen from the recent trolls.

If you have any reason to believe someone is trolling do not reply to their threads, simply use the report function and a moderator will take the appropriate action.

I'll leave this thread open if you have any questions, or always PM me.

Thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*bump*
Report even if someone else already did, it adds gravity to the situation:rolleyes:!!

That, and report often.

On the flip side....rep people who deserve it.
 

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Troll - A person that dedicates their entire existance to a entity to the slow degradation of it.

ie) I would constantly flame everyone.
ie2) This board is about giving advice and opinion, and I decided to say "I'm your biggest mofo pimp around", spamming the boards, or basically being useless in the eyes of the purposes of the entity.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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